Curly_rincewind
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Curly_rincewind
1mo ago
The Munich one is pretty well visited. Theres also a small one in Erlangen. Can DM you the group chat links.
Curly_rincewind
1mo ago
Nah this is the plot of S07E01 black mirror "common people".
Curly_rincewind
1mo ago
Damn. Been reading posts about your Marital issues for a few years now. This did feel inevitable. Not going to lie, I got the impression you were chronically miserable.
Even though I don't usually share your perspective on things I really enjoy reading your posts.
Anecdotes of your life and work are of great interest to me because from the bits and pieces you put out there, I feel like your an older version of me. I'm a young german graduating in a technical field and looking to start a family with my partner soon.
So it does pain me whenever you write about how unaffordable everything is and how having a young family in Germany sucks hahah. I still choose to be more optimistic.
I really hope I will see more upbeat posts from you in the future!
God, I find woman like this grossly unnatractive. If a girl is drug adjacent, and doesn't have her life in order, its a No.
I know it's partly a nice guy ism, but skanks are not capable of consenting to me. We're just not in the same ballpark of decision making capacity or agency.
Their brains are so contorted, with all their little pathologies vying for attention that it makes me complicit in engaging merely because I'm aware.
If I've known them for longer then maybe, but that's only after I've established a connection to all the disparate parts of their unstable personality and I myself have had my agency reduced by the powerful emotional force of time+proximity.
I don't begrudge most other men for "tapping that" but only if they are either unaware of how broken that person is or they themselves are psychologically compromised.
Either you're a big enough manwhore to drown out short memories of woman or those spiritual scars are going to stick with you.
Knowingly canoodling with "a bad idea" is weak. Just jerk off (without porn) before going out. Your too old and experienced to be bed post notch maxing. It's your job dealing with these people, surely that makes it worse somehow.
Aside from that. Great series of posts! You have really struck gold with the "Indian immigrant goes to Scottish gay bar" device. For the television mini series adaption I would make your character have a bleak and empty social life outside the new friends he's made at the bar, while he's grappling with moving back to India due to family pressure of his arranged marriage. Grueling grey work and a cold damp Appartment contrasts with the warm sunny flashbacks of his native home.
The episode structure is the immigrants refreshing non judgemental curiosity of the absurd and colourful characters leading him to learn parts about them no one else bothered to because they couldn't look past their larger than life personalities. At the end of each episode the Indian immigrant gives an impromptu therapy session, leading the subject of the episode resolving some deep issue they had been carrying with them.
Add some bitter struggles with casual racism, and you have all the right ingredients for a BBC dramedy. In my head you look like a young Jason Mantzoukas. Would be Kino casting.
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