mrvanillasky
Indo Aryan Thot Leader
Future apocalypse survivor
User ID: 3273
Trigger warning - this is related to pornographic material
Lily Philips is an onlyfans model who slept with 100 guys in a single day. She is from the UK and does not have the background of a typical pornstar from the looks of it. Popular Youtube video maker Joshua Pieters made a documentary around it with her in it where at one point she just cracks where she gets a hint of what she just did, in trying to sleep with more guys than most friend circles do in a few lifetimes all for the sake of being edgy.
The clip has gained traction and I feel bad about the girl. Some Christian women are asking for her to be forgiven and taken back under gods grace whilst the Tate Brothers asked their followers to go undercover in her gangbang and literally preach the gospel to a cum infested e celeb. Hell this is the first time I have seen either of them show regret for having ran an onlyfans studio.
Lily and her friends have done similar things before but I cannot find any of it since any mention of her name brings up thousands of links about what she did this week. How do you even describe what she did given that she wants to do a 1000 in a day despite breaking down on camera? The cherry on this cake is that she can get married to a fairly normal guy tomorrow because Riley Reid, another adult entertainer did this too.
edit - removed a question about religiosity, since I think it came off in bad faith which is not my intent at all as a religous person
mrvanillasky
Indo Aryan Thot Leader
6mo ago
Yeah, terrorists are seen as martyrs in all cultures that feel that they are oppressed, the US simply lacks that so shooters get a decent amount of cred.
mrvanillasky
Indo Aryan Thot Leader
6mo ago
Elliot Rodgers is still immortal in the form of a meme that refuses to die, idea wise too. We have had plenty of examples of such people, not just in the US either. Luigi is a middle of the road centrist who had some rough edges and a very sympathetic motive.
Also violence is very attractive, the ability to act violently and get away with it is a very strong form of attraction which is why some serial killers who look alright attract girls, many people who get out of jail for murders have higher odds of casual sex due to the percieved status.
Luigi is a good-looking, well-adjusted, smart guy, the perfect conduit, an anti-woke, neo luddite, credentialed guy who went after one thing that no one sane likes. He chose to act out against something most people just whine about in a public and violent way. His acts were incorrect, killing an innocent CEO wont fix americas dreadful healthcare system ,modern democracies need to ensure a level of safety for the elites at least to work properly and. @/FromKulak gave him props too lol.
Can it be any surprise that the left wants in on this intoxicating elixir?
Nope most people want to win, ideologies exist as conduits to balance out self-preservation and winning. The left wants to claim him since unlike the right, they have a long history of violence that helped establish their regimes. People watch sports for these reasons too, winning just feels sweet.
mrvanillasky
Indo Aryan Thot Leader
6mo ago
This is not prostitution since that implies a much higher frequency and a more direct means of payment, regardless, I wish them the best and hope they can mend their ways. This behaviour is quite common in all classes, women need providers and sometimes sleep with them so that they continue providing. I do not fault her sisters as much since this screams lack of money. It is not ideal and they would stop if they were to escape their financial hardship.
mrvanillasky
Indo Aryan Thot Leader
6mo ago
100 percent lol, the best resource on sex is this book called the sex god method by daniel rose and he explicitly recommends meditation to fix performance issues. It helped me out and should help you out. ED in most cases for young men is a psychological issue.
mrvanillasky
Indo Aryan Thot Leader
6mo ago
I had some brief run-ins due to psychological hangups, mostly stress, not being immersed, meditation fixed it so would recommend you give that a shot and reduce stress, if it still persists, visit a doc immediately, do not self-medicate.
mrvanillasky
Indo Aryan Thot Leader
6mo ago
Progress Update -
I am now close to 6 hours of work daily which includes math(mathacademy), frontend(learning web design by jennifer niederst robbins) and backend (boot.dev). This is maybe the first time I have been able to do STEM-related stuff for over a month regularly without spinning my wheels. I will aim for 6-8 hours daily by next week, I would earlier have impossible aims like working 12 hours a day for 7 days a week which was quite stupid. I have two accountability partners who keep a track and I cannot thank them enough for it.
Meds and stuff -
I started incorporating 5-minute micro sits in my day besides my main sit of 24 minutes. My concerta prescription got renewed, still 36 mg, enough to make a difference, my psychiatrist noted that I came off less fidgety than when I first met her over a month ago. The med is important because it helps in everything, when I was off last week, reality felt a little blurry, now I can listen to music again and feel calm.
Miscellaneous -
I was quite stressed recently due to my previous co-founders and finding ways where I can stay friends with them but move on to other things in life. In hindsight, I was wrong to LARP as a founder for over a year when I lacked any basic hard skills. In case anyone here wishes to work as one in tech, I hope you have good technical chops, I did not and ended up being the least potent guy since we never did have even a pre-alpha product nor did I get paid a dime which I don't blame them for. They meant well, I don't wish to burn bridges with them. This sounds trivial but kept me up for the past few days. People get really pissed if you try things a different way, I don't want them to give me any input for the next 2-3 months but don't know how to say it.
An even weirder thing is telling people who meet me "what I do". I am not alone in this, a former high school buddy recently came back to my town from Delhi and he went to the Yale Law equivalent here. Life will be alright, just need to keep working for now, see ya guys next week.
mrvanillasky
Indo Aryan Thot Leader
6mo ago
She can do a lot, convince the wife that she wont get much or the 6k might just be a beginning in a series of bribes. Judges here can do a lot, Indian courts have backlogs going back 80 years so not like it wil get checked. Everyone takes bribes and judgements many times are made on whims, this is seen as a fact of life here by everyone.
mrvanillasky
Indo Aryan Thot Leader
6mo ago
Thanks. I do not want themotte to become an extension of Indian culture war or have a signficant presence either. I post some links mostly to show the downstream effects of the western world and its values. Divorce Rape is a very common threat that was introduced here by liberal secular influences.
I see no reason why Indian concerns should not be welcome here, nor any benefit to concerns about rate or volume of contributions by nation of origin generally.
Appreciate the sentiment. I think op was slightly worried since other places in the past got run over and not by the good kind of south asians. Median mottizen is a west dweller so an inkling towards matters closer to thier turf is understandable though I am fairly confident that this wont turn into indiachan.
The OP in particular seems directly relevant to both sides of the general debate over Feminism as an ideology. It seems obvious to me that the situation they're describing arrived through attempts to solve valid, legible problems identified by feminism, and is a demonstration of how Feminist solutions aren't sufficient in and of themselves.
Precisely. Most feminists motte and bailey around this, so I kinda saw this story as a universal thing. India explains the pitfalls of bioleninism better than the west, in ways that can also demonstrate the destructive potential of having rabid feminist laws and having a state interfering with your domestic matters. Spandrell in his essay on the post mortem of neo reaction noted that the allure of a "strong government" is frightening as of today with covid being a good demonstration of it. No matter where you live, governments will try to meddle with your life more and more, bureaucratic setups need to find more problems to justify their existence and increase their scope of power.
Power is like money, if you dont then someone else will grab it. It was quite common to see ludicrous statements and judgements from english courts on twitter where they would let some south asian rapist walk without proper punishment or go light on women. Its effects are literally seen in the opposite ends of the world thanks to globalisation and tech growth.
mrvanillasky
Indo Aryan Thot Leader
6mo ago
Quora went down this way where all the productive people left once it became a mainstay for 90 iq south asians. @prungus had a decent point here with regards to the possibility of the discussion becoming too India-centric, themotte has Indians in the double digits so that is extremely unlikely to happen but it is a very real concern. There is no reactionary or rationalist sphere in India so this place will be fine lol. Seriously, you cannot compare the likes of Jonathan Bowden to anyone here in the past 100 years. I perosnally would not wish the forum to be run over by Indians either, I have been critical of mass migration and visa scams since the start.
This only presages what's gonna happen to the whole of the internet in the next decade and a half. Both India and China on their own have more people than the entire western world combined. Now China has language barriers but for India and associated countries the English speaking internet is fair game.
You overestimate a few things. Ethnic conflicts in India are scrutinized much much more than in the west and there are not many smart people or any texts, ideologies that would lead to productive discussions on most topics.
(at least before 2010ish you could reasonably say the Internet was where the Western elite congregated and they deserve a bigger megaphone by dint of their eliteness).
Quora, IG, and twitter to an extent became worse ever since they eternal septembered by people from the third world, and not the good kind. The internet being monopolised by 5 firms leads to people trying their best to appeal to untapped markets. Moldbug on his appearance on Justin Murphys podcast said that he could not have written his stuff this decade as the blog is dead. There were independent well run forums 15-20 years ago, not anymore.
mrvanillasky
Indo Aryan Thot Leader
6mo ago
So if there is a woman who has an above average bust, the only way to fix sagging is getting silicon implants?
mrvanillasky
Indo Aryan Thot Leader
6mo ago
The ideal forms change with time, in the 90s it was really slender people generally, our times appreciate someone who has above average levels of muscle mass and standout secondary sexual characteristics. I personally always leaned towards the second and never understood the appeal of androgynous, skinny, low muscle mass body types.
The Greeks got both the male and female form right. Youthful heracles is my reference point personally and aphrodite might have been one had I been a girl.
mrvanillasky
Indo Aryan Thot Leader
6mo ago
Are there corrective measures, surgeries of any capacity to maintain their shape. What age does the sagging become apparent, how much of it is due to a loss of muscle mass?
mrvanillasky
Indo Aryan Thot Leader
6mo ago
I wouldn't mind hearing more about gender dynamics in India
I'll write something original soon then lol, they are fucked here
I'm curious about the references to Dowry Act. Are dowries still common, even in urban areas among upwardly mobile/educated people like the engineer in question?
Very, earlier, you didn't have banks so a father would send his daughter off to get married and the division of property was only done among male heirs, dowry was money that was sent to help the bride and the groom out. Post 1947, traditional society broke down, dowry became more inflated so did wedding expenditure as people used them both to signal.
Nowadays it's still a thing, parents of the bride send money out of their own goodwill in a lot of cases but at the same time most cases of it are well and truly evil. Most people here aren't nice, they extort the bride so the laws are 100 percent in the right theoretically. It's that the low trust, scarcity based society leads to people literally scamming others.
In most urban upper middle class or higher cases, the dowry is voluntary and not a super significant amount of the girls parents assets. It's a way to signal status and many communities don't practice it. Otoh, urban middle class uses these laws the most for extortion.
It's admittedly pretty amusing to scroll through the twitter of 6FeetChadAryan and see beta vs. chad dynamics, gynocracy and boomers mentioned in between references to Hindu mythology like this
Lol, Hindu twitter is not the smartest, it's quite stale but it's super funny at times. I used to be a hallowed anon poster until I quit in 2021 out of frustration.
mrvanillasky
Indo Aryan Thot Leader
6mo ago
Completely fair. I have posted about India thrice, twice if you talk about simply local events here. Indiaposting does get tiring.
My aim is mostly to point out some other worldly acts of social justice combined with corruption. I used to find headlines, absurd ones about courts in England letting go of obvious criminals due to these reasons, this is kind of like that.
Divroce rape is a very common thing, I learnt about it first from MRAs in the anglosphere. Never quite expected any news from my nation be talked about people beyond just the locals.
mrvanillasky
Indo Aryan Thot Leader
6mo ago
No data available on this but I'd assume fairly low since those who get in these situations are mostly white collar types who live far away from violence in any capacity.
mrvanillasky
Indo Aryan Thot Leader
6mo ago
Yeah, he certainly should, again it is just his side and he seemed to care a lot about doing the right thing after a point. I probably would have simply paid off the judge tbh so dunno why he would not. His family is yet to make a statement on this.
mrvanillasky
Indo Aryan Thot Leader
6mo ago
does the court only believe women?
Bioleninism explains India better than any other nation. The court is absolutely rigged lol, the actual law itself states that this stuff explicitly only works with genders, so if the girl does the same exact things, you have no laws of the same levels of harm to punish her.
mrvanillasky
Indo Aryan Thot Leader
6mo ago
I am very sorry to hear about that, losing your aunt and then seeing your uncle going through this is harsh. I hope he is doing better now.
This was all despite literally no evidence beyond the unfounded claims made by his in-laws, while he was able to show evidence of his wife's struggle with depression and get her doctors (including psychiatrists not in the family she was referred to) to testify.
Most here would not believe how backwards and bad laws and the entire judicial process can be for a man. India is a very low trust society, everything is broken.
Last time I saw him, he told me to:
A) Never get married B) Get out of this country while I still could
Correct on the second count at least, you deserve better. I disagree with the first, I want to have kids, and I hope I can have biological kids of my own, having them out of wedlock is not ideal. I do get his point, my family has been involved in court cases that are laughably false for the past 6 decades if not more, people who go through the process suffer immensely, and the charges against him were severe too.
The latter? You know where I am.
You did the right thing man, I will probably follow suit too.
mrvanillasky
Indo Aryan Thot Leader
6mo ago
What are the marriage prospects for a divorced woman like this like in India?
Not that bad, you have a lot of poverty here and bangalore is very open minded
What motivation would she have for her alleged actions according to this guy?
Many, the usual ones are money, some allege she wanted him to pour money into the ventures her family ran, the girl getting caught cheating is a big reason for such actions, not sure if that is a case here but these two are the main motivations, hers seems to be money.
Was she just making up charges
yes
corrupt legal system assumed he was guilty with no evidence?
He would have to give a hefty alimony, the note describes a lot of it in great detail. You are charged with a criminal case and many times it is non-bailable. Courts here routinely give half baked decisions that you challenge in hgiher courts, I wish I was making this up.
mrvanillasky
Indo Aryan Thot Leader
6mo ago
Is it common in India to use this kind of terminology?
no, not at all, this guy was upper middle class and up and likely fairly online and centrist
Is this actually treated as a legally plausible claim in India?
Yes, India is not for beginners
There was a recent suicide in India by a fairly competent ML engineer due to divorce rape. He uploaded his note and a 90-minute video on rumble for everyone to see where he detailed how the Indian legal system ensured he dies. The note is in English, the video in Hindi. Twitter has some tweets that give you some details in case you want a quick summary, this, this, this and it even got mainstream coverage. You can read more about the MRA fold run in india by following this lady.
Marriage here are extra fucked. If the wife commits suicide in the first 7 years, the groom and his family get charged. Similarly, the bride can always file the dowry act and get the groom and his family jailed. Since this is India, most of these cases are just women fucking over the guy since this is a low-trust society, this is despicable given these cases make actual events of barbarism harder to punish due to long backlogs.
In this case, the judge wanted the guy to pay a few hundred thousand dollars, not rupees, and asked the victim to pay her 5 hundred thousand inr (6k usd). Cases here are stuck in judicial purgatory, no one trusts or has ever trusted the judiciary and most if not everyone runs under the belief that bribing is the only sane option. Our victim here directly named the judge, his wife and wrote a section dedicated to his young son who wont get to have his dad around.
I am uploading some parts of his harrowing note in English for the benefit of other mottizens. I am unmarried and my mother always warned me of such things even as a child, though I am quite aware of how grim things can be, I found this to be fairly depressing.
Instance 1 of Instigation for Suicide
Date: March 21, 2024
Place: Principal Family Court Judge - Rita Kaushik Judge CabinPrior to my cross-examination scheduled to happen after lunch, I arrived at the Principal Family Judge courtroom. I was called into Judge Rita Kaushik's cabin by Peshkar Madhav, where my wife, Nikita Singhania, was already present. Below is the conversation that took place:
Judge: Why don't you settle this case?
Me: Ma'am, they were initially demanding 1 crore INR (approximately $120,000 USD), and after your interim maintenance order, they are now demanding 3 crore INR (approximately $360,000 USD).
Judge: Then you must have 3 crore INR. That's why they are asking for it.
Me: Ma'am, please look at the petition; see the accusations they have made against me and my family. They have filed numerous cases. They are not allowing me to meet my child. She has left the house herself. She is harassing me and my family. I have to travel from Bangalore to Jaunpur.
Judge: So what if they filed cases? She is your wife.
Me: Ma'am, if you look at the NCRB data, many people are committing suicide due to false cases.
Nikita Singhania: Then why don’t you commit suicide too?
Judge: (Laughs) and asks my wife to go outside.
Judge: These cases are all false. This is how it happens. Think about yourself and your family. Settle these cases. We will help you.Me: Okay, Ma'am, suggest something. But I don’t have that much money.
Judge: We will adjust; I will take 5 lakh INR (approximately $6,000 USD) and I will get it settled here in this court. It’s a very reasonable amount; you earn that much money. Nikita will adjust too. Otherwise, you and your parents will be running around in court for life.
Me: Ma'am, I don’t have that much money. We have all the evidence; so many things came out during my wife's cross-examination. You should hear our case on merit.
Judge: Alright, we will hear your case on merit. You may go outside.
Instance 2 of Instigation for Suicide
JUSTICE IS DUE
Date: April 10, 2024
Place: Outside Principal Family Court, Jaunpur
After opposing the Judge's unilateral order against me regarding compliance with Rajnish Vs Neha filed on the same date without giving me a chance to file a reply, I came out of the courtroom where my mother-in-law Nisha Singhania tried to provoke me.Nisha Singhania: (chuckling) Oh, you haven’t committed suicide yet? I thought today I would hear about your suicide; you said you would do it that day in front of the judge.
Me: If I die, how will your party continue?
Nisha Singhania: (smiling) It will still continue. Your father will provide the money. Everything belongs to the wife when her husband dies. After your death, your parents will also die soon after; then there’s also a share for the daughter-in-law in that too. Your entire family will be running around in court their whole lives.
mrvanillasky
Indo Aryan Thot Leader
6mo ago
I believe so, it was done when we used reddit for this forum iirc.
That is completely fair, All religions, even Hinduism have paths of salvation. I will edit the bit out since my point about sins might come off as incendiary to others which I did not intend to. I want to get takes on this besides just the hope for religious salvation and I do hope that she finds god soon enough. No woman should willingly go through the kind of trauma despite not being poor where your body dissociates from yourself after your 100th dick for the day.
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