osman-peri-original
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osman-peri-original
15d ago
You writing is quite attractive though.
osman-peri-original
1mo ago
This has not been my experience with men. Male virgins will admit when asked that they've never been with a girl.
I suspect that the opposite was meant. While it is expected of a man to have a slightly higher body count, slightly is very important.
Having had 20 girlfriends doesn't make a man more attractive, and men with 10+ body count often lie about it.
osman-peri-original
1mo ago
again, not in my experience, at all. possibly because of cultural difference? generally where I live women care very little about men's looks. a big Maitreya style belly is considered rather cute.
but of course women are ready to give bad advice to other women
osman-peri-original
1mo ago
Oh, yeah, of course. there are many traits that are universally disliked, like having debts.
but the market is very diverse, far from being a "commodity market"
osman-peri-original
1mo ago
In my experience women are quite willing to discuss such topics, especially reproduction-related.
(I don't live in the USA though, might be cultural difference.)
More specifically: (3) is just an absolutely normal topic for discussing, just be more tactful -- age doesn't have mercy on anyone; (2) SMV and "marked" are too subjective. Even on the most primitive level, some people like blonds, some like black hair. People are repelled by claiming that attraction is universal, it's not.; (1) women LOVE discussing looks, like giving advice and disparaging people with suboptimal looks. They even like receiving advice on looks, but with a caveat, it's better too avoid saying bluntly "do like that beauty does", women become jealous (and rightfully), so be more tactful.
Overall, really, try to pay less attention to females' look, looks gonna wane, but personal qualities won't.
I can do the math all right :D.
At the events which match my interests precisely, the ratio of women to men is about 1 to 100.
But I'm aware of this "math". When I said that "getting laid is not easy, but doable", I mean that I also go to events where female to male ratio is much closer to 0.5, and sometimes manage to pair with a female. The problem is that I can't really have sex with her without a heavy dose of Viagra, and I don't want to subscribe myself to a pill every day for the next 30 years. It's devastating for the brain, sleeping with someone you don't really desire.
are the men notably more or less attractive than their female partners
This is such a hard question... I don't really find looks attractive, so it's hard to tell. If a person is not obese and doesn't smell like a fish or a goat, he/she's okay.
osman-peri-original
2mo ago
I always wonder how men manage to get an erection on a woman who is (metaphorically speaking) "not obsessed with 40k".
Like, I never managed. Boredom as in an inability to find a common discussion topic works better than bromine for switching off libido.
osman-peri-original
2mo ago
In my experience, finding an interesting single woman to marry is about two orders of magnitude harder than becoming an expert in seduction.
Getting laid is not easy, but at least doable. Finding someone I wouldn't mind inviting to my lair is... well... unsuccessful.
osman-peri-original
3mo ago
SSRIs don't reduce desire, they only reduce performance.
osman-peri-original
3mo ago
In the later books synthetic spice was also invented.
osman-peri-original
3mo ago
Please recommend a good news source about War in Ukraine, ideally impartial and ideally focusing more on objective criteria rather than politicians statements or shock footage.
How do people find out they have not been cheated on? I mean, some people are very skilled at hiding their affairs.
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