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Culture War Roundup for the week of April 1, 2024

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Even having this conversation is a bad sign. Why would you need to worry about such distinctions?

I don't need to worry about it at all. I'm married, I and my wife are strictly monogamous, and neither of us drink or take drugs.

Society needs to worry about it, because the current default norm is that intoxication does not invalidate consent if the person is still aware, and for better or worse much interaction between the sexes proceeds on this assumption. If you wish to change those rules, I for one am amenable to it, but we should be clear on what the new rules actually are, and how they're going to be enforced. a ban on alcohol anywhere people are going to hook up seems like an obvious first step.

I reject your claim that "even having this conversation is a bad sign". You can argue why in more detail if you like, but this is a space for discussion between opposing viewpoints, not a space for silencing views one disagrees with. If you find the idea that there might be a reasonable distinction between intoxication that nonetheless allows consent and incapacitation that invalidates it so repugnant that all you can do is performatively harrumph about it, then you are free to either keep your performative harrumphing to yourself or else find somewhere else to do it.

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Mod hat to defend rape. Lol count me out then buddy. Holy shit. This whole place is polluted by your presence. If you want to ban me for this? I'll be proud to wear it. God damn!

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As you wish. You're a new user with no positive contributions of note, and seem uninterested in contributing in a constructive fashion, so I've set the ban to permanent since that seems to be your preference. If any other mods think it should be lowered to a tempban of whatever length, feel free.