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confessions of a femcel: why i'm a 24 year old female virgin.

farhakhalidi.substack.com

It's an essay about the various flaws modern feminist sex positivity culture has for women, and that it's often a good idea to refrain from sex even if one isn't religious. The author is an Only Fans model for context. I thought it did a great job laying out the downsides of ubiquitous sex.(Reposted because I accidentally linked to reddit instead of the original essay earlier).

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Firstly, women feel a social and interpersonal pressure to have sex they don't want. Like they need a good reason not to have sex with someone.

Related to the first... Badgering women into having sex with you after they've said no is apparently fine in some people's minds.

Its an interesting sort of "relation" between the two. Im not particularly worried about the badgering because you dont need a reason. Basically. The more liberal lykurg just saw this as a character flaw. Today, I doubt both that women in general can stop being so agreeable, and that its entirely flawed. Still, "intimidating guys out of talking my daughter into things" feels like a desperate last resort. I still think the agreeable instinct can at least be directed away from people you first met in the bar that evening, and failing that, Id try to keep them in safe circumstances.