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Culture War Roundup for the week of November 7, 2022

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Plenty of powerful people make contemptible mistakes, they tend to stick to affairs with consenting adults for a reason.

Did Epstein's targets all initially know that his victims weren't consenting adults? I thought the scam was that there were "hostesses/masseuses/etc" around with a mix of ages so it would appear plausible they were all of age, but if an underage girl had sex with a target in one of the rooms wired for video then the pictures+video end up in Epstein's safe labeled "Young [name] + [name]" and that target ends up owned. From a consequentialist standpoint, a target keeping silent about someone pimping out children for blackmail material is enabling future rapes, doing something even more contemptible than a single deliberate statutory rape ... but if the alternative to deliberate statutory rape is "just don't fucking do that" whereas the alternative to giving in to blackmail is "get outed as a rapist but whine about how it wasn't so bad because she looked 18 and you thought she was asking for it" then I'd bet there are a lot of people who wouldn't be evil in the former case but would make a deal with the devil in the latter case.

I might naively suspect that even evil people would rush to be the first to squeal, lest someone else get that whistleblower credit while federal agents discover the non-whistleblowers in Epstein's sex-recordings safe anyway ... but since the exact titles in that safe still haven't been unredacted, perhaps the evil people understand feds better than I do.