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What points did I leave out? I didn't take yours point-by-point, but I can. My point was that you couched your points in an adversarial framing, as if "rivalry" is the only way to frame our interactions. Of course, that's not even close to true.
No one here said it did.
What "new term"?
There's a difference between using/consuming the same thing at the same time, on one hand, and one person declaring their right to prevent any and all others from using/consuming it at any particular time or at all times. They're not the same. I'm talking about the latter. "If I eat the apple, you can't" is just physics. What's true and relevant to one isn't necessarily true or relevant about the other.
Nor am I going to think your thoughts for you. I invited collaboration on an alternative to "deprive-first, ask questions later or not at all" ownership. No shame in coming up dry. I came up dry for a long time. My thoughts aren't inscrutable, but neither are they subject to demand on command, lol. A couple of people have touched on sharing as the alternative. Most have given reasons why alternatives aren't workable. A couple have strongly claimed that no alternatives are available. For me, this is a revisit to a topic I broached years ago. I know the kinds of responses I got then, and now I know something about the kinds of responses I got this time. The differences are informative. A shift is in progress.
Besides, I didn't want to influence the responses by making a suggestion of my own. I'm happy to do so at this point, though:
What about provision as an alternative to deprivation? What would that look like?
Indeed. What would that look like? Any ideas? Given that you seem to sometimes use not-quite-standard language, I think a whole lot can be cleared up if you just describe what you think your use of this language looks like.
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