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Culture War Roundup for the week of November 21, 2022

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I think your book is wrong. I recommend more science and less Freudianism. You say:

"There are five conditions which enable women to get what they want

from men: women's control of the womb; women's control of the

kitchen; women's control of the cradle; the psychological immaturity of

man relative to woman; and man's tendency to be deranged by his own excited penis."

All of this reifies modern Western consent-centered sex norms. For all of human history until 1960, sex did not work this way. A woman who is considered a minor by law, with her father as her guardian and then her husband, in a society with no concept of "marital rape", has basically none of the power you describe -- she, in fact, has about as much power as a contemporary 13 year old boy, which is nothing.

You kind of recognize that you're reifying the unnatural:

"That man abandons the kitchen to woman, and grovels for access to

a womb, are not ordained by nature or by god, but result from how

woman, who controls the cradle, has chosen to condition boys and girls."

But, scientifically speaking, people don't work like this, so your premise is wrong. Your book contains no science or statistics, which is an epistemic issue that made you vulnerable to this flawed premise, upon which the entire verbal screed seems to be based.

When I initially saw this post I misread it, and though you were promoting the work of the one and great F. Roger Devlin. I'm getting old.

I don't think you can solve the "putting the pussy on the pedestal" view with a purely social or perspective-based solution. It can help your mentality and with avoiding the extremes of cringe beta pushover behavior, but it can't change the basic biological fact that, in terms of having greater reproductive value and necessity, pussy really is on an objective pedestal.

Of course nature did anyway give us men a solution that our ancestors readily applied: because we are stronger, we can simply forcefully control women and set the value of any given pussy (or pussy in general) at what we prefer, irrespective of its value to our reproductive instinct masters.

I do believe modern men should consider reimplementing this solution again. It's the only solution as far as I know that's actually ever worked to comprehensively keep the problem under control.

This isn't the place to shill your own book. We do allow people to post links to their blogs and substacks, etc., within reason, but for something like this, you need to write more than some ad copy.

In an effortpost with something interesting to discuss, in which you put forward your views, maybe we'll allow you to include a link saying "Hey, here's this thing I wrote about it."

ETA: Misunderstanding based on mod logs. I reapproved the post.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chinweizu?wprov=sfti1

Nah dude, the book is not The posters work. Unless that is him, in which case that's hilarious and awesome and we should welcome him with open arms.

Yes, plus one on adding an exception for 80 year old Nigerian poets peddling their books!

EDIT: Oh god, now I have the visual of the guy's face reacting to getting banned...

I didn't ban him, I just removed the post. It's been restored.

Don't you want to see the regulars argue with an elderly pan African PhD so badly? I'd settle for a high effort impersonator.

Almost like the good old days, back when that enlightened guy wanted to throw down with Deiseach.

The author's name is the same as your username, did you write this?

Can you provide some more information? You give the main point, which is certainly a big problem that a lot of guys have, but what more does it provide?