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Culture War Roundup for the week of June 2, 2025

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Comments are filtered for posters who have not achieved sufficient cumulative upvotes. This is legacy code baked into the Drama code that this site is built on, and no one knows how or has the time to fix it. When a comment is filtered, it's invisible to regular users but visible to mods, with the only indication being an extra "approve" item on the row of small, greyed-out text at the bottom of each comment. it's very easy to miss when you're reading the new comments stream. We approve good faith comments as soon as we're aware of them, but they're very easy to miss.

What's the link to the source code? At the very least, I could make the approve link big and red.

But the guy has 170 comments!? Can't you whitelist him somehow? Or should I manually give him 170 upvotes?

you (and others!) can manually give him upvotes, and hopefully he'll eventually get out of the filter. This would in fact be greatly appreciated.

Okay. You can't upvote from the home user page, you have to click the link to the individual comments, and then do it. So I tried to rope in some helpers.

(reposting to alert of major correction)

with the only indication being an extra "approve" item on the row of small, greyed-out text at the bottom of each comment

The moderators can use custom CSS to make the approve button more visible. For example, [data-bs-target="#reportCommentModal"]{font-size:2em!important;} makes the report button twice as big as the other buttons. (Not being a moderator, I don't know what selector will make the approve button bigger. I'm just using the report button as an example. From looking at the code, I think it might be something like [id^=approve].)

Let me try this. Thanks much!