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Honestly I don't think about it 99% of the time because I just grill in irl and the enemy hasn't come for that yet.
If I was a hardcore hokey pokey dancer then sure this would be a major problem but it's really not an issue.
This is in fact true when the enemy controls all of the institutions and positions of power. Where for many people, simply having a job requires many implicit and several explicit oaths of loyalty to the enemy. I am fortunate enough that I am not one of those people.
You also have to remember, the enemy has been doing the hokey pokey and gloating about it, nonstop, 24/7 for 5 years now - on the streets, on tv, at work, in the papers, at the hospital, in the technical documentation for some random API, etc. I'm not the one who made it such a big deal. And NO, I will NOT do it.
Nobody cares which words you say or which wokies use it as a spell to steal all your mana or whatever you're afraid of, just maybe find a way to talk about the subject without everyone on the board cringing their way to a rectal prolapse over your childish personal neurosis.
I don't think I even particularly disagree with you, but this is pure cringe. You sound completely brain-fried and should probably stop consuming culture war material.
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