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Culture War Roundup for the week of September 15, 2025

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Then we disagree on that. Notice, you appended a previous accusation of a crime ("if you accuse someone of a crime [first], and [then] I say '...'") in order to obtain that interpretation. Lots of people out in the world accuse lots of other people of things all the time. You're heavily relying on a contextual basis: that people know that a blame game is going on, that it's happening on both sides, and who the recipients are exactly.

I think to call something an accusation, it needs to be both affirmative in language, as well as prominently featured.

Example: "You weren't at the show last night" isn't an accusation! It's a statement of fact. Contextually, if you know that your friend promised to be there beforehand to support you, it's still not an accusation (at least to me). Does it imply that your friend maybe bailed on you? Does it imply that you may be thinking it was intentional, or that your feelings were hurt even? Of course it does, that's a logical conclusion, but the whole point of comments like that is precisely that they aren't direct, and thus not actually accusations. Similarly, Kimmel implies that he's a MAGA, but since it has very little to do with his actual point (the upcoming joke), he doesn't make it affirmative and direct. (Also, to be an accusation, you don't bury it in some sidebar, you give it more prominence as its own statement - though that criteria I think is more a matter of opinion)

That's how language works, it's not torture.

So that's it? Okay.

Then we disagree on that. Notice, you appended a previous accusation of a crime ("if you accuse someone of a crime [first], and [then] I say '...'") in order to obtain that interpretation.

Yeah, because Trump supporters were already accusing the left when Kimmel decided to accuse them in turn, making the analogy directly applicable. The remark in question doesn't even make sense outside of that context.

Did you just miss that part? Why did you type a whole ream of meaningless text predicated on not noticing it? Is this supposed to be persuasive?