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Culture War Roundup for the week of January 23, 2023

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If trans people just want to use bathrooms.... and there you go. No need for sinister moustache-twirling baddies plotting to put hormones in the water supply of every kindergarten, just 'this is what right-thinking nice people agree is okay'.

What I find so troubling about this is I don't think the people pushing this thing even consider that there could be features unique to each step of this journey that they wish to take us down. It's all flattened to this Marxist type oppressed VS oppressor narrative. There are meaningful differences between the push for decriminalization mutually consensual sexual acts between same sex pairings, the push for same sex marriage and the push to trans acceptance and the territory beyond is full of new exotic frontiers chock full of terrors. These people take all advancement as progress whether pointed at a cliff or a bridge. And the kind of thing you can push into the oppressed VS oppressor box is troublingly diverse. There is a reason conservatives find pedophilia and zoophilia so easy to reach to. I don't really see a limiting principle that would prevent these from being the new frontier and you would hardly even need to update the slide decks.

And the kind of thing you can push into the oppressed VS oppressor box is troublingly diverse.

Because we've reached the point where the norm as such, not just concrete legal discrimination, is oppressive and needs to be "queered".

Unfortunately, we have norms for a reason.