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Culture War Roundup for the week of November 3, 2025

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As long as they don't make it my problem if/when things go wrong thanks to their bad policies, why should I care who they elect?

As long as the dirty Tidewaterers don't start moving to where I live and make things go to shit with their inferior cultural values, I feel safe and secure in my own city.

I overall agree with your attitude and it's one I try to cultivate myself, but living in places that have been overrun by Californians et al. demonstrates the weakness of that position. I could say "what does an AG race in California have to do with me?" and then Harris ends up as VP and running for President. I'm not going to get worked up about, or even think much about, the Virginia AG race other than posting about it here, but I can't be 100% certain it's not going to have eventual unpleasant effects in my life.

Same for Mamdani's election. I couldn't care less about NYC (I think Goldwater's take on the eastern seaboard had some merits), but when NYCers start flooding into my state to escape him, then I have to deal with it. And having dealt with plenty of former New Yorkers, they'll complain incessantly about how bad the city was, but then vote to replicate its problems while complaining about what a shithole cultural desert they've fled to.