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Small-Scale Question Sunday for November 16, 2025

Do you have a dumb question that you're kind of embarrassed to ask in the main thread? Is there something you're just not sure about?

This is your opportunity to ask questions. No question too simple or too silly.

Culture war topics are accepted, and proposals for a better intro post are appreciated.

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Doesn't have to be a discrete happening, could also be a life situtation, a kind of 'this is my life now' at some point in your upbringing. Maybe you picked up on secretiveness and being overly private from others, or maybe you just used your own intelligence to figure that it was probably a good idea. Genetics may play a part too.

Introspection is necessary for healing, because only looking and acting differently outwards will in many cases be an adjacent effect at best and orthogonal at worst. I didn't say that the lack of introspection was what caused the secretiveness issue.