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Trivially, there are pretty significant costs to flight.
More seriously, there's very little guarantee it would work. I'll point, again, to KendricTonn getting a Kirk Smirk in Ohio meatspace, or to my own experiences over half-a-decade ago. Crusading AGs from Blue States have brought the long arm of the law against people who did try to escape, or (as people trying to publish CAD files from Texas have found out) even if they were never in New Jersey to begin with. WhiningCoil cares a lot more about trans stuff than I do, but Wyoming specifically isn't exactly matching with his goals there despite a legislative and regulatory environment that specifically ordered or legislated it.
And then you get the federal government decides that they're going to have a new interpretation of a law and want a nice high-profile grab, you get your skull ventilated at 6AM, the cops doing that put more effort into documenting your soon-to-be-widow's morning piss than the pre-dawn raid, and no one in office in Arkansas cares. The supposed libertarians otherwise traumatized by the presence of masks for law enforcement they don't like will suddenly find crickets, the people who would burn down buildings over government overreach will suddenly decide to roleplay owls with a 'who, who'.
And I'm not downplaying them. His job, his wife's job if she has one, schooling for the kid(s), church, overall support structure if family is nearby... those are all significant considerations and make moving complex. However, if the alternative is seriously weighing armed rebellion, then perhaps relocation is a more realistic first step.
As to your other points, I don't disagree. There is no perfect escape at this point. To add to your examples, in Arizona, Daniel Shaver got killed by a cop while crawling along the ground, and there certainly wasn't any rioting when the cop was acquitted of murder. And that's Arizona, so what does that say about supposedly pro-freedom states? Even so, there are an awful lot of states I'd pick before VA or NJ.
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