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Culture War Roundup for the week of January 30, 2023

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I would emphasize that she was crazy

What does this mean?

It is very unlikely that social care will allow her to start a new family with children

You are then suggesting that she spend the rest of her life in a mental institution? That doesn't seem significantly different than prison to me. Prison with better healthcare.

Deterrence is unlikely.

immune to reason or consequences.

people committing crimes do consider the possibility of themselves being caught. For example, that is why she waited until her husband left, she was aware that if her husband caught her strangling her three children to death their would be consequences to those actions, like not being able to kill her children. If people believe they can strangle their children to death and get out of it because a doctor diagnosed them with psychosis, there will be less of a deterrence to killing their children.

she will not have a similar opportunity, so rehabilitation (even if it works, which can not be slightly assumed) does not matter.

you are assuming that because she killed only children, and only her children after her pregnancy, that she is only capable or willing to kill that specific category of people after her pregnancy. If I were to commit a complete genocide of a race/ethnicity/religion you can say the same argument for me, no point in rehabilitation as they are all dead.