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The laws regarding this sort of thing vary by state, with some states having laws that specifically address it, some not having any but honoring private agreements, and some openly hostile to it. Just to be clear, having lawyers heavily involved doesn't mean one of you gets the guy you used to handle pap's estate to draw something up that you both sign; it means you each consult privately with your own attorneys who have actual experience with donation, surrogacy, etc. In most places it isn't something that's likely to cause problems down the line. But legal concerns are secondary when ethics is on the line. Would you, personally, want to have emanated from a turkey baster and into their world? I the answer is yes and you want kids at a distance, go for it. Otherwise, get that new book on eunuchs, have it with you the next time you see them, and tell them you need more time to think about it.
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