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Primarily relevant to here through the discussion of what people claim to find attractive vs. choose, but also considers various other measures of attractiveness. I dont agree with all these analyses but think its worth posting simply for considering the topic in a lot more detail then Ive previously seen.

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Triessentialism posits that there are four foundational categories of value: utility, agency, experiences, and esteem. In this view, women tend to do the above because esteem is the value category they intuitively weight highest. (It tends to be low but nonzero for people with autism.)

Interesting. Is there an intro that you recommend?

It’s a work in progress, even after twenty-two years, but you can read early blogposts on it from 2006 in my early twenties, with the current best of the posts being http://triessentialism.blogspot.com/2006/11/unbearable-separateness-of-being-and.html - it was more of a scratchpad than a blog, really. EDIT: here’s a post more in line with the OP

I also have attached a handy Venn diagram, the theoretical details of which have not changed since it was created.

https://www.themotte.org/images/16757467502810833.webp

Thanks!