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These sort of brave 'hold the line' moments of trans exclusionary feminism always lack self awareness. Where the typical scenario of a desperate plea in the name of 'women's health' are paraded about like a holy shield. Not recognizing the 'health' that will be sacrificed in the name of these 'women', notably the health of trans women. But on top of that not recognizing the 'health' that has already been sacrificed in the name of feminism at the cost of men.
The core mode of feminist 'meta' discourse is that of designating who is in and who is out. Who the 'actual women' are. You know feminists are in disagreement when some of them have started talking about what is best for 'actual women'. Women who find themselves on the out realize this very quickly. They are not 'actually women'. They are the outgroup. Being pro-life, for instance, functionally makes you not an 'actual woman' since your values are not going to be carried out by the people who 'actually care about women'. You might think that you are a woman and that being pro-life is good for women but you are wrong. The 'actual women' are pro-choice.
Taking this framework of feminist 'meta' discourse and applying it to the trans thing, the display is obvious. Trans is in. Even if it's just certain institutions, you can see the lightning quick reflexes. The Florida Highschool Athletic Association is not standing on their heels. There are people there who know what's up. They know what's 'in'. And in the name of every single element of society that feminism crushed to get where it is today all I can say is lol.
How on earth can radical feminists or feminists in general pretend that the sort of radical change in society, to the point of floating ideas that are to the direct detriment of someone else's health, are somehow beyond them? I've lost count of the times a radfem will stomp their foot on the ground and proclaim that no matter anything else, 'what is best for the mom is what's best for the baby'. Even if that means killing the baby so mom can continue chasing her dreams in marketing. Hell, where are the old radfem forum threads where women were floating the idea of not breastfeeding their boys so that they would become more physically equal to women? Those notions were, admittedly, radical. But the notions of drastically changing society to make these sort of 'equalities' come about via different means were not. In some aspects they've just become policy.
Feminist discourse has a very simple mode for how to view itself and 'actual women': Everything that is not 'actual women' takes a backseat. No matter what that entails. There is no principle. There is no line in the sand it will not cross. It is always and has always been a very simple mode. The ingroup always comes before the outgroup. There is no debate about anything else on that topic. The only debate is what qualifies as the ingroup. And that debate is, as it stands, over. The feminism of the past would not have batted an eye if they had to discuss this in any other context. At best they would only have acknowledged any resistance with mockery.
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