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Culture War Roundup for the week of January 19, 2026

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I was curious how one does become AG in Virginia, so that we find ourselves in this unfortunate situation. Appointed by some evil corrupt Democratic governor? Or the coastal elites or Illuminati or Jews? Buying the post? Murdering the previous AG?

... this format is degrading to the discourse, the worst form of strawman, and completely ignores the objections other people are raising.

Beyond that, we have more than a single joke:

“If those guys die before me,” Jones wrote, referencing the Republican colleagues who were publicly honoring the deceased Johnson’s memory, “I will go to their funerals to piss on their graves” to “send them out awash in something.”

Coyner’s alarm at her former colleague’s violent rhetoric toward Gilbert prompted Jones to call her and explain his reasoning over the phone, a source familiar with the exchange told NR. According to the source, the Democratic former legislator doubled down on the call, saying the only way public policy changes is when policymakers feel pain themselves, like the pain that parents feel when they watch their children die from gun violence. He asked her to provide counterexamples to disprove his claim.

Then at one point, the source said, he suggested he wished Gilbert’s wife could watch her own child die in her arms so that Gilbert might reconsider his political views, prompting Coyner to hang up the phone in disgust. Afterward, Jones continued his barrage of text messages, saying he was just asking questions. Coyner dismissed his excuse via text and chastised Jones for “hopping [sic] Jennifer Gilbert’s children would die.”

Rather than deny that he had wished death on the children, Jones responded by saying, “Yes, I’ve told you this before. Only when people feel pain personally do they move on policy.”

Faced with more pushback from his frazzled former colleague, Jones somehow took the conversation a step further: “I mean do I think Todd and Jennifer are evil? And that they’re breeding little fascists? Yes,” he wrote, referring to Gilbert’s wife and two young children.

Two Dem state senators responded to the scandal by claiming that "Jay Jones has demonstrated the character, compassion, and vision that the Office of Attorney General deserves". Which, you know, isn't wrong, from a certain point of view.

... this format is degrading to the discourse, the worst form of strawman, and completely ignores the objections other people are raising.

What people were implying was basically "Jones is not legitimate because he is evil". To which I responded by pointing out that the legitimacy of an AG is not tied to his non-evilness.

Beyond that, we have more than a single joke

The rest does not technically cross the line of threatening to kill someone (though the "little fascists" comes close, but then again the Republicans might not be the ones to cast the first stone wrt dehumanizing language). "I wish your kid died in your arms so that you would learn what it is to lose someone to gun violence" is not a nice sentiment, but it is also markedly different from "I will gun down your kid so you get to experience gun-inflicted grief firsthand".

Two Dem state senators responded to the scandal by claiming that "Jay Jones has demonstrated the character, compassion, and vision that the Office of Attorney General deserves".

You make it sound like they were praising his statements about Gilbert. What they actually said before was:

Like all Virginians, we were deeply disturbed by Jay’s comments and we condemn his words without hesitation. Let us be crystal clear: There is no place for political violence or violent rhetoric in our public discourse, and Jay must take accountability for his actions. But [...]

Again, what did you expect to happen? That they would announce that they were all going to vote for the Republican candidate out of disgust?

Sometimes you may privately think that your party colleague is an asshole and still endorse him publicly.

Presumably, when it became public knowledge that Trump was bragging about groping women in situations of unclear consent and had paid for fucking a porn star while married, the Christian Right was not very thrilled about it. But still, few if any of them endorsed Clinton over it. I think that the sentiment was likely along the lines of "He is certainly a sinful man and a sex pest, but if he gets Roe overturned that will stop a lot more sin."

In both cases, the relevant voters (while probably not thrilled about the scandals either, for the most part) ended up believing that there were bigger things at stake than the scandals.