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This is a perfect example of precisely what I spoke about here:
If anything the parent x child interaction is very similar to the government x citizen one. I don't think the violence based enforcement holds for every other domain.
It appears to me that for voluntary contractual interactions, violence is not the fundamental enforcement mechanism. Take your job, if you don't wish to do something you can leave, if you boss wants you to do something and you refuse, they can stop paying you. No violence needed. Friend group social situations: no violence either. Generally, voluntary contractual interactions are enforced by reputational damage, trade/compensation, or right to association.
The parent x child much like the government x citizen is one of forceful unchosen hierarchy, in the sense that it is forced upon you and only through extreme measures, at great personal costs, can it be severed. And since you did not chose to participate the really only enforcement mechanism that is available for the government or your parent is to threaten you with further violence if you refuse to comply.
It would be different if we were still a tribal society and people could just leave society, go out on their own if they did not wish to engage in the social compact. However, the edges of the map are gone, and there isn't really anywhere people can leave to. Just merely exchanging one tyrant for another.
What if you don't leave? Remember to apply the assumption of maximal-opposition at every stage.
Considering my office doesn't have food, my badge is disarmed and there is limited cell signal, eventually I will need to leave. Combined with needing to make payments for life needs and am not being paid, I could maximally wait around until I am destitute, homeless, with no food or money in a stubborn attempt, but I doubt my job will care. They literally can just wait me out. My computer requires credentials to login, The SCIF has no bathroom, and needs a badge to get back in. Once I leave the building I won't be able to get back in, frankly once I exit the elevator I can't get back in.
So essentially 3 days of hobo-ing it at the office.
Maximal-Opposition isn't a required assumption. The Government doesn't describe arresting law breaking citizens as "Maximal-Opposition" and my parents very much spanked me as a kid and I doubt they would consider corporal punishment as "Maximal-Opposition" in respect to defiance either.
You may choose to. They may choose to wait.
...but I kinda doubt they'll wait.
That's not at all what I've said. I've said that you can very very easily find examples of the government or parents doing things that are non-violent. Nevertheless, if you persist at coming up with ways to be oppositional (example), they either have to escalate or give up on enforcing the rule. If you repeat the steps of being oppositional and escalating enough times, you end up in violence. That doesn't mean the first thing was violent.
When your parent says that you can leave the dinner table, but if you're hungry later, you're just going to get the dinner that you didn't eat, that's not violent. If later comes around, the kid escalates, and the parent moves on to corporal punishment, that doesn't somehow convert the first encounter into being a violent encounter.
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