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I found a lot of my really meta dating-app conversations tended to be of the sort where I'd get halfway through a first date, realize I had no real interest in ever seeing the woman ever again and then just start asking questions. Also a few cases where the woman was a massive oversharer of their dating-app escapades which killed anything I had for them, but I was happy to talk about the game as a player at the time.
On that note, I'd say look maximizing generally pretty overrated for women so long as they're not obese. Even fours could get pretty solid dates so long as they could see their feet, and most of the chatter I got was more of the 'Girl dithering/trying to reach for the absolute hottest guy instead of dating just a notch or two up and probably finding a solid consistent boyfriend'. Hell, in my year or so of concerted dating app effort I went from a 35 BMI to like a 22, dressed/presented better and got better at dating as a whole which meant I feel like I saw life as a male 2/10 all the way to a 7/10 which was pretty illuminating.
Wow. Care to elaborate on the differences in life at the different tiers?
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