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Sure but the female estate is greater protection without the needing to be on constant protection, which is generally considered a punishment. Otherwise why have female prisons at all, just put all of them in the same building and have the women confined to their cells 23h a day.
A petite cis gay man doesn’t have a female body that’s going to attract the same kind of attention as a passing post-op trans woman in a male estate. The risk for the latter is equivalent to a cis woman in the same situation, maybe with greater violence depending on the inmates attitudes or the belief that they can “get away” with more since a trans woman will attract less sympathy.
So I do feel sad that in your worldview, I don’t deserve the full extent of protection from rape and violence some other people do, because I wasn’t born the right kind of human. I hope I never get in trouble with the law or falsely accused of a violent crime, abused by a partner and need a DV shelter, become homeless, etc, and that I can maintain my nice comfortable middle-class existence.
Or… I can live in a country that has laws that I consider reasonable (and it does seem that most western countries consider bottom surgery sufficient for most of the above - even the Reform Party justice minister spoke in favour of not automatically housing trans women in male wings), surround myself with people for whom being trans isn’t a big deal (which is honestly a much bigger number than I thought), and just live my life with a bit less stress.
If the UK is making housing trans-identified males in the female estate conditional on their having undergone bottom surgery, that's news to me.
Yes, but as I pointed out, in your worldview, some people deserve greater protection from rape and violence than others, because they weren't born the right kind of human.
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