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From what I see, you are the one who is refusing to commit to a basic meaning for the words you are using, even when offered a number of perfectly reasonable options (you could have pointed at some specific thing Corvos said, too, if you were so reluctant to put it in your own words). Would it be appropriate if I said in response that it seems like I'm arguing with a rightist of the oldschool antiintellectual type, who thinks that speaking analytically is some gay nerd shit?
I can assure you I was not trying to argue in bad faith here - I even tried, especially in the subthread with Corvos, to proactively suggest some interpretations, which you only would have to say yes or no to. I understand that you are waving at something that feels very obvious to you, and perhaps it is also obvious to Corvos and other people who share your outlook, but it isn't to me. People are not all the same! I don't look at my genitals, or anyone else's, and get any sort of feeling that I would describe as "purpose". I can abstractly imagine a number of ways in which someone could get a feeling like that, but depending on which one it is, the interpretation of your statement changes, and maybe I am off the mark with each and every of my guesses. If you want to make an argument based on that feeling, it is on you to explain it.
(The parallel with leftist gender arguments is really not there, because in those arguments rightists generally have no problem offering up serviceable definitions of gender. If the rightists had nothing better to say than "I know a woman when I see one", their case would be rather weak.)
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