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We're very close to where I'd rather deal with a frontier model doing customer service than a person. The main rub is they probably won't serve us frontier models. I don't know how often you've actually dealt with customer service on out of distribution problems but it's not pretty, and the in distribution problems can basically be straight through processed already with a minimal ai wrapper.
This makes me miss Nordstrom's from the old days even more. They were legendary for their customer service. In every dealing with them you always knew they'd take care of any problem that comes up. You pay for that of course, but it's well worth it for some things.
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The problem with customer service (and a lot of other similar domains, actually) is that as the problem to be dealt with rather than the employer, the human bottleneck actually often worked in your favour. Having human employees working the phone line and wanting them to not quit or flame out and shoot up the office is the fundamental limit that makes it hard for Corporate to institute their ideal customer service policy, which is "trap any complainants in a Kafkaesque gaslighting nightmare until they give up". Mr. Claude has no limitations there, because he does not feel the "I am screwing over a fellow human being and making a mockery of the very concept of 'support'" qualia nor the "it sucks to be screamed at all day by people who hate me" ones.
Maybe you're working with scummier companies but it's not at all apparent to me that the goal of any company's customer support organization is anything other than supporting their customers, which they often do poorly because customer support is a cost center. Maybe if your modal interaction is trying to get a refund you aren't entitled to, but my biggest problem has always been when my interests and the company's basically align but the support agent doesn't know how to move some lever. The company doesn't want to pay a support worker or for tokens necessary to keep me in a kafka hell, nor do they want to piss me off as a customer to the point where I stop being a customer.
The vast majority of my customer service interactions has been with various transportation companies (airlines most frequently), who very much do appear to optimise for dodging refunds that their customers are in fact legally entitled to. There is a reason "pay us a third of the refund and we will take on the effort and risk of enforcing your statutory compensation claim against the airline" is a real business category that exists out there.
Never seen any US major airline try to withhold a statutory refund when asked for it directly. And they're sometimes quite generous with refunds or compensation even when you're not statutorily entitled to anything.
I guess I'm mostly talking about European airlines here. I guess the US generally has more of a "money is cheap" (when compared to the loyalty of a high-status customer?) attitude.
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