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Yes, agreed. I was born in Canada and spent the first half of my life there, and I always explain that the major difference between the two countries' cultures is that, while Americns are very proud of being American, Canadians are very proud of not being American.
I think things have changed in the last 25 years or so–and especially since Trump started provoking us—but certainly in the latter part of the 20th Century Canadians were rarely overly patriotic in the way Americans are. Sure: we'd sew maple leaf patches to our knapsacks when travelling abroad for obvious practical reasons, but otherwise the only places you'd normally see Canadian flags were on government buildings and on Canada day.
But—despite CanCon rules— we consume massive amounts of American media (though obviously we know which shows are actually shot in Vancouver of Toronto, and which of Hollywood stars are originally Canadian), and largely absorb the same values and world view. Those of us from the more populous parts of Ontario even get accused of sounding American by fellow Canadians who grew up closer to Saskatoon!
But as much as we (used to) think of Americans as our pals, and despite how little overt patriotism you'd see on any day but July 1st, Canadians almost necessarily define their cultural identity in opposition to our larger neighbor to the south:
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