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Culture War Roundup for the week of March 6, 2023

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Sexually frustrated young men are a moral problem, but even if you don't agree, they are a well-known political problem. Your problem too. You are playing with fire.

Modern society has more defense mechanisms and is refining the ones it has for precisely this reason.

  1. Plentiful cheap entertainment and pleasure to blunt male aggression via degeneracy.

  2. An ever increasing system of controls and surveillance to chase for "radicalization" in any online or media space. This system can be vastly more granular than most surveillance systems in the past; corporate moderators, researchers and actual government agents can track smaller and smaller accounts and users now than someone might have been able to follow a random who only had a telephone or not even that.

  3. Related to 2: this also allows the crushing of any figure for males to rally around, from the milquetoast types like Jordan Peterson to the imo probably legitimately misogynistic and criminal like Andrew Tate.

  4. Attempts to control the academy and so to educate such men into the right mindset to blunt violence (some form of self-hating, self-blaming false consciousness).

A real gauntlet for radicalized men to run. I doubt their frustration amount to much.

Speaking personally, I'm not that worried about Andrew Tate. Partly because a lot of what Tate says was far more mainstream only a few decades ago, just in a slightly different language, and second of all, Tate's audience isn't 20-something incels. It's horny 14 & 15 years olds. Now, as a former horny 14-year-old boy, of course, they're frustrated.

But, the reality is, most of these 14-year-old boys will have some sort of relationship in high school. Guess what, once the option is a makeout session/handjob/etc. or continuing to watch Tate or some other dumb streamer, guess what the horny teenage boy is going to choose? Like, it's obviously not great, but I don't think it's the crisis people think it is.

But, the reality is, most of these 14-year-old boys will have some sort of relationship in high school.

Why do you think this? Only 35% of teens have been in a relationship and I'd assume these people are less likely to be Tate fans.

The system of anti-radicalization controls is really bad relative to what it could be. Far-right twitter users get suspended every few months, but continue to 'radicalize' people. It's certainly less effective than past forms of social control like 'exile/prison for saying something illegal', and dissent existed in those too. The first point has at least 20x the effect of the second.

The most likely outcome won't be any kind of incel revolution, but a constant drag on the economy as more and more young men permanently check out in favor of a minimal amount of wage labor to survive and spend on cheap electronic entertainment. It won't destroy the country, but it'll make it worse off, both for the limited lives those men will lead and for the missing value to society (economic and interpersonal) they won't create.