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Culture War Roundup for the week of March 6, 2023

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I do. And I'm sure those early feminists had to enduring sneering pestering like this as well. What even is your angle here?

My impression, admittedly mostly from outside this forum, is that a lot of people complaining about the vilification of men don't actually want to do anything about it. They want other people (often feminists) to do it for them. I jumped to conclusions regarding your own posture and apologize. Good on you for living your beliefs.

I would say most of them can't do anything about it other than complain about it bitterly on the internet. They speak about any of this under their real name there is a very real risk of losing your job and getting smeared by highly online zealots and spineless employers worried about losing face.

From my limited engagement in this space which is themotte and some subreddits threads I stumbled upon through culture war discussions is feminists or progressives will do their very best to put down any discussion that actually touch on men's issues as sexist, patriarchal, racist, authoritarian, fascist, supremacist,... you can go on and on.

The few spaces that seem to be greenlighted like /r/menslib are utterly useless in covering issues that most men actually worry about. Discussion on gender issues will involve points that are not very charitable to men... and women which feminists and progressives can't seem to handle with their binary oppressor/oppressed mindset.

Well feminism is a large cultural force right now and it in most cases is pushing in the opposite direction. I can stand up for men in my life and against misconceptions but for the world I think we should live in the entity that is feminism does need to either change or be opposed. Whether that's because a critical mass of people like me are able to change the relationship society has with feminism as a concept and thus in a ship of theseus manner starts producing memes that offer young men a dignified place in society or because some other entity slays it is to be seen. It is still Goliath in the gender meme world and it is going to dominate discussions.