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Culture War Roundup for the week of November 9, 2026

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I think what the US needs is a grand bargain between the two sides on immigration: one big amnesty for those already there, obviously excluding criminals, etc., and to then start actually enforcing the law.

I give you: everything you want on the issue

You give me: you promise to follow the law, which you have already promised to do, and which already gives me everything I want on the issue

Wow great, what a deal, sign me up

I do feel it is unfair that people who've lived in the US for years or decades under the understanding that the law will not be enforced have had the rug pulled out from under them. No, you can't just say "but it's the law!". Imagine a teenager smokes some weed on the understanding that the prohibition is not enforced, and then a tough-on-crime district attorney starts enforcing it and suddenly he's spending a year in jail (the maximum sentence) and will never be able to get a good job. People act differently based on how and whether laws are enforced, and suddenly changing that retroactively is unfair.

Oh look, one paragraph later the I am being told that you are just going to ignore the law if you think its unfair.