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At least some 'mainstream' providers get it both ways: they offer the same recording trimmed, or with a different voice-over, or sometimes just a different title.
But there's also a lot of stuff that's pretty heavily focused in and promoting it, despite the best efforts of payment processors to stop them, and even in genres that aren't quite so male-dominated as het live-action work. Even in those domains, there's a number who are otherwise good works or focus on other interesting kinks, but are hard to recommend because it's closely connected to a kink that a lot of people are deeply repelled by. That includes both the cases that would be fantastic without the incest, and others where it's a major driver of the story and it's still weirdly well-written.
One model is the benefits of specificity. There's literally hundreds of millions of people looking for porn. If you lose out on the 90% completely squicked out by incest kink, you've still got more buyers than you can actually imagine selling to. At the same time, it's hard to stand out from the crowd even if you're unusually good plain jane vanilla. That said, we don't really see providers going after equally specialized works nearly as heavily, so this is unlikely to be a full explanation.
Another is that these kinks are shortcuts for certain psychological and social relationships, and they can be presented quickly. A lot of brother/sister works aren't that far from tomboy-as-kink, for one of the less loaded examples. You can well reasonably ask why not go with that instead, but for people who don't have siblings, the brother/sister version makes the guy seem less of a loser. It's weird, but that's how psychology works sometimes.
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