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I'm not being uncivil by any stretch of the imagination. By 'your theory' I mean 'the redpill theory under discussion here, that you very likely adhere to'. I noticed you didn't actually deny the redpill belief, you just denied saying it.
At this point you're not making any sense. Redpill can mean many things. In terms of men and women being different, that's just basic biology and common sense. Our discussion was around why men can't give up their jealousy and how it's linked to paternity certainty. Our discussion did not revolve around women, who have their own evolutionary pressures.
I don't deny that men and women are different and I said so upthread, I'm on board with HBD generally. So either we never disagreed in the first place, or you are trying to wiggle out of defending your redpill beliefs on a fake technicality. Either way, let's call this a day. Your appeals to complexity are getting tiring anyway (have you never heard of parsimony?), and now you're questioning the meaning of words.
You're still not making any sense. Our debate was about whether men's worry about promiscuity is purely cultural and affected by paternity certainty. Dude anyone can read this thread, where am I wiggling? You brought up nothing of substance
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