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Culture War Roundup for the week of March 20, 2023

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Who knows?

Just to be clear I would say i am 85% to 90% on Avellone being the victim here.

But people do weird things. Maybe she lied about Dragoncon banning but told the truth about the rest. Maybe Avellone was very forgiving or really wanted to take their make out session to the next level. Maybevshe is confus8ng Dragoncon 2012 for Unicorncon 2013 or a vivid hallucination from when she was high on mushrooms.

My point is not that it is highly likely that she is lying about the situation, but that we cannot know for sure because people do weird, apparently fucked up decision making all the time.

Also to be clear anyone who claims to be sure he is guilty is even more wrong in my opinion. But, I haven't seen anyone saying that here.

Though see my reply to the guy saying it might be 50/50 where i am arguing that he is underestimating the chance of Avellone's innocence.

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You're really grasping at straws. If there was overwhelming evidence of his guilt, would you be singing the "we can't be ABSOLUTELY SURE, guys" tune ?

Contrast that with your full-throated condemnation of his minor sins, which would have never come to light without the giant lies. Maybe he was on shrooms and had a vivid hallucination where he 'crossed the line'. Pray your every faux-pas never get put under the microscope like that.

Absolutely, above someone was arguing it was basically a coin toss on who to believe. I argued they were underestimating the likelihood of his innocence given the evidence.

I want Avellone to be innocent, hes been involved in some of my favorite games, and i would like him to get back to it.

But here of all places we should try to be clear about when we know things and when we can just be fairly, very or almost sure.