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Way too antagonistic, dude. You've been warned about this before. Banned for a week.
Inexorably, the bans get longer and longer. Shouldn’t I get a reset somewhere, I’ve paid my debts to mottiety.
The gradual automatic escalation is stupid, site's getting unusable for me now. Will the garden improve after I leave, weed-puller?
You've drawn three warnings and two bans in the last nine months, uninterrupted by any AAQCs. The easiest "reset" would be for you to stop being unnecessarily antagonistic. We're warning and banning you in hopes of bringing your posts in line with the rules. If you don't want to follow the rules, then yes, your absence would be an improvement.
It is not our goal to chase people away. Quite the contrary. But this is not a clickbait site and no one is running "engagement" metrics and asking how we can get more clicks. We're fully prepared to accept the possibility that the rules suppress engagement; the rules are more important to us than keeping participation high.
If - big if - I write a AAQC, will you stop increasing the bans and go back to warnings?
No--rather, we're more likely to just overlook borderline offenses, and less likely to escalate quickly. Even a pile of AAQCs isn't going to stop you from getting warnings and bans, too--we've handed out months-long bans to some of our best posters, over the years. And it's disappointing when they leave. We want them to stay! But not at the price of allowing them to ignore the rules.
The best way to stop dealing with bans is to stop breaking the rules. Is there some reason you don't consider that a live option? Is there something I could tell you that would get you to consider that a live option?
Regulars get less charity than newbies and private accounts of unknown provenance. This isn’t me flaunting the rules or refusing to recognize your autoritah, we’re talking about effectively banning me for stuff new accounts would barely get warned for , slowly but indelibly added up over years of participation like a kafkaian nightmare.
Imo over that timescale the good washes out the bad. (if there is any. Basically, to answer your question, I’m an innocent man, victim of circumstance, accused by appearance)
For example here, rafa’s the most resilient person on the motte, completely unfazed by antagonism, if what I said even counts. The way I see it, you’re defending people who don’t need defending, enforcing borderline rules for the hell of it.
Anyway, I got your meaning, I should write that QC so I’ll get the benefits, implicitly.
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