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I assume he must be broke otherwise why go after the family?
He's clearly being taken for a ride by his lawyer. The family didn't make much money from the book/movie and, even if they did, why is someone entitled to money for their "story"? You can write a story about whoever you want and you don't have to pay them a thing. Nevertheless, I'm sure this will play out in the press and that the Tuohy's will settle with a non-disclosure to make it go away. Betraying the ones who helped you is a hell of a way to make money.
Which is a shame. He could easily pull down good money from appearances, endorsements, and memorabilia. He doesn't need this.
See my post above. He's not doing anything you wouldn't do if you found out someone had full control of your affairs for the past 20 years.
The Touhys' lawyer claims that Oher has threatened them with lawsuits before now that never went anywhere. I tend to believe the family, I think the idea that they were hoping to scam money out of a broke teenager is unlikely. The chances of even a really talented player going pro and getting rich are extremely slim.
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