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Culture War Roundup for the week of December 4, 2023

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Even presuming you had your history correct, crusades and burnings were generally done to the outgroup, not the ingroup. You are explicitly claiming that ingroups don't exist.

We remember atrocities because they are unusual, which is the opposite of "ubiquitous."

And yet, we don't. At every step, you reiterate your claim, and I point to the obvious evidence that your claim is wrong. There is no "dealing with the outgroup", because as long as there's three people, there's an outgroup. Further, while conflict between humans is endemic, that conflict is usually sharply limited, and by no means universal. Peace observably exists between individuals and groups. People observably live happily with each other. You can say that this is just brain chemicals forcing them, which is fair enough, but the fact remains that your statements do not describe reality as I observe it well at all.

In the first place, a theory that only obtains under fictional circumstances is not a very useful theory.

In the second place, your statement has zero evidentiary value. I say that if you gave three people a Star Trek replicator, things would go pretty much exactly the way they observably go now: bounded conflict, bounded peace. Which of us is right? There's no way to know but to look at the evidence we currently have, which is that conflict between humans is fairly sharply bounded.