Botond173
4hr ago
Isn't the whole point of the existence of sororities to insert themselves in situations such as this?
Botond173
4hr ago
It makes sense. Women obviously have no innate conception of the effect of T on the sex drive and what it can compel them to do.
Botond173
6hr ago
Are you sure about this? A 20-yr-old was 11 years old when the MeToo campaign started.
Botond173
6hr ago
It seems to be that OP is referring to an unwritten/unstated social rule so asking for publicly available evidence probably isn't warranted here.
Botond173
6hr ago
At least among the subset of women willing to engage in group sex in the first place, is it safe to assume most will regret it?
Probably yes.
I would expect that the vast majority of these sorts of encounters end with all parties going their separate ways having gotten more-or-less what they wanted out of it.
I guess I'm beating a dead horse of my own at his point but everyone involved here belonged to the same small social circle on campus. Going their separate ways wasn't a realistic option. It was also unrealistic to expect that the men involved will all go on to conspire to carefully conceal the incident from all other women in the same social circle.
Botond173
6hr ago
I recall this being a specific argument of the Youtuber The Jolly Heretic.
Botond173
23hr ago
In this telling, it's very much a "is there anyone you forgot to ask" situation, where third parties are inserting themselves into something that they have no business inserting themselves into.
Well sorry but no. A queen bee who's heading a sorority presumably with high status on campus has an evident interest in preventing that sorority from gaining the reputation of being associated with crazy sluts.
Botond173
23hr ago
Don't you think that there is too high a bar for this level of conspiracy and coordination in this particular social setting?
Botond173
23hr ago
Botond173
23hr ago
it was the men who were not taking responsibility for their choices
The responsibility to do...what? Other commenters here have pointed out that the disinvitation to the Halloween party obviously seems to originate from the sorority queen bee. Were they responsible to defy her in this?
Botond173
23hr ago
So to spell it out, in your view it was the unmet specific obligation of the fratboys involved to carefully conceal the incident from a) the sorority queen bee and her minions b) clueless male students of the same college whom the woman in question sees as potential future boyfriends/husbands.
It's probably no coincidence that the three groups of women with the general reputation of being down for performative/desire sex are young women (so not yet interested in long-term commitment), recently divorced women (done with the whole concept of long-term commitment, at least for the time being) and cougars (who basically left the mating/relationship marketplace altogether).
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