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DuplexFields

Ask me how the FairTax proposal works. All four Political Compass quadrants should love it.

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DuplexFields

Ask me how the FairTax proposal works. All four Political Compass quadrants should love it.

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If you’re willing to experiment with your 7yo girl’s mind before handing them over to the therapist’s tender mercies, you can try something I wish someone had tried on me.

Philosophy as medicine.

Specifically ontology, the philosophy of categories of things that exist and how they interact. Here’s the top four that helped me:

The realization that led to Triessentialism changed my life. It formed the basis of an explicit Theory of Mind which suddenly made me able to understand others’ motives, at least at a surface level. I believe it would also inform good pedagogy to ensure a balance of Physical, Logical, and Emotional learning.

The Elements of Harmony (from My Little Pony 2010-2019) taught me how good and bad relationships work. Each is a relationship virtue that increases openness and trust if given freely, and in a way that isn’t unbalanced by one person providing all of an Element in the relationship:

  • Honesty
  • Kindness
  • Generosity
  • Loyalty
  • Laughter

Boundaries should be set and Elements of Harmony should be given in proportion to which of the three qualitative levels of friendship that relationship is:

  • acquaintances have shared attributes
  • friends have shared experiences
  • ohana (family, partners, found family) have shared purposes.

The Fourth Step of the twelve steps is a way to resolve cognitive dissonance regarding the right and wrong things that happen to you, or her. The easy way is the PAINS method for resolving moral dissonance to avoid negative behaviors:

  • Person whose choices impacted your life
  • Action they took which you remember as a sensory event
  • Instinct that was Injured: why their choice was dissonant versus your morals
  • Negative behavior this dissonance might have or might yet spawn
  • Self’s part: a misunderstanding of others’ motives, or taking something personally, or underestimating how one’s own abilities, inabilities, or disabilities reduced your freedom of choice during the Action

Let me know if you use any of this in homeschooling her.

I’m an INFP idealist. I want to see everyone saved, rescued, loved, and a part of me hurts when they aren’t. I want everyone to comprehend and never to argue.

It was 4chan that taught me to have a thick skin and give as good as I get, here on the Internet.