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				Small-Scale Question Sunday for August 30, 2026
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
Indeed, the longest section of the book (almost a third, though the book itself is relatively short at 166 pages) is dedicated to backbiting and gossip, particularly about others' faults or what they would not want said about them. Muhammad apparently described backbiting as the metaphorical equivalent of devouring the flesh of your brother.




The corrupt may conceivably be truthful in his report, but it is not allowable for you to believe him.






And one of them said, "If what a gossiper conveys to you is true, it means that he is bold enough to vilify you to your face, in which case the one from whom he conveyed it is more deserving of your clemency, because he did not vilify you to your face."






Among the consequences of having wicked suppositions about people is spying. This is because the heart is not satisfied with just supposition—it seeks verification and so is occupied with spying, and this is also forbidden, as God says: And do not spy [Q. 49:12]




As often is the case, there is an attempt to delineate the terms which resembles legal reasoning, and a focus on harms and benefits. I found this definition rather striking:




Slander amounts to gossip unless it is conveyed to someone who is feared, then it is called "slander." The Prophet said, "The one who slanders one people to another people is like
someone without guidance..."




I'm sure that the choice of the word "slander" may be subject to the nuances of translation. Nevertheless I believe the meaning behind this is found in the following:




Hammad b. Salama said, A man sold a slave and said to the buyer, "He has no defects except gossiping." The man said, "I accept him." So he bought the slave and after a few days with him the slave said to the man's wife, "Your husband does not love you. He plans to take a concubine. If you take a razor and while he is asleep cut some hair from the top of his head, I can use it in magic that will return his love to you." Following that, he spoke to the husband and said, "Your wife has taken a lover and wants to kill you. Pretend to her that you are sleeping so that you can find out for yourself." So he pretended to be asleep and his wife approached him with a razor to cut some hair, but he thought she wanted to kill him, so he jumped up and killed her instead. After this, the wife’s family came and killed the husband, and a feud arose between the two tribes that went on for years.




In other words, the basic intent behind all of this is the avoidance of such terrible harms up to and including war.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			
			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Small-Scale Question Sunday for August 30, 2026
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
So, what are you reading?


I finished al-Ghazali's Banes of the Tongue, which was well worth the read. I can dimly see some aspects of Islam, and in particular the hadith "Beware of the believer's intuition because he sees by the light of God" has caught my eye. There is a sense of leaving uncovered what God has covered and not speaking about what doesn't concern you; in particular, if one is gossiped to, the gossip says more about the gossiper than the one who is spoken about. It has kindled an interest in ways of knowing which might arise from an Islamic mindset.




What is forbidden is supposition [about another's alleged evil ways], and supposition is an expression of what the soul believes is reliable, and the heart inclines toward. God  says, O you who have believed, avoid much negative assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin [Q. 49:12]. The reason for its unlawfulness is because the secrets of the hearts are known only to the Knower of the unseen, so it is not for you to believe in another’s wickedness unless it is disclosed to you by observation and cannot be explained away.




The book is quite comprehensive, talking about things like arguments, joking, praising or being praised, and I'm sure to be revisiting this often.