RenOS
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If #2 works fabulously, then the next complaint would be (quite reasonably) that all good men are gone. Women don't want the desirable men to commit in general, they want the men to commit to them.
The problem is simple: Modern women - as a a group average, not literally everyone, to be clear - have standards above what the actually existing average men can offer. Worse, some of these are strictly relative (i.e. " he has to earn more than me"), so it's in direct conflict with other preferences such as feminism.
As a single man, you can't actually change much about the general issue, but you can improve your ranking to get a chance for yourself. So #1 it is.
The outcome is still that only a minority of women is really happy with their catch, a substantial number settling but with resentment since they're convinced they really deserve better, and another part looking at the latter and rather staying alone.
RenOS
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6d ago
To be (maybe excessively) fair, people often don't know what they're getting into, even if they think they do. My wife is a city girl who used to go on "farms" with her family for vacation and thought that's what the countryside is like. Then when she visited my parent's place (not even a farm itself, just close to several), she was completely flabbergasted about how bad real pig farms smell, about manure being brought to the field right next to our house ( you can even smell it through certain drains in our house), etc.
Sure. And they also complain about the opposite, men being pigs who will settle for anything as long as it has a suitable hole. And they also complain about men actively prefering worse partners since they would feel threatened otherwise.
Any survey, experiment or just demographic data I'm aware of on the topic shows a stark difference between the sexes. Women will openly admit to strong exclusion criteria in surveys, act on them in experiments, and live by them demographically.
Men have preferences to be sure, but will generally date whomever they can get. The actual problem with men is that they are more violent and generally willing to force themselves upon others to exert their will, i.e. the complete opposite of our current problem. And, to be clear, very good to be kept in check. It's just that women also have toxic tendencies that need to be checked, even if they are less dangerous.
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