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RenOS

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RenOS

something is wrong

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User ID: 2051

Thanks, wasn't aware of this.

Could you link the videos? I tried finding them, but couldn't. In general, is there an easy way to search for all post that include links?

I've seen the officer POV video before and also found it quite scary, and tbh have a hard time emphasizing with people pretending he had no right to be scared, that it was trivial to just sidestep (how should he even know beforehand into which direction?), etc.

But I haven't seen the 2019 video, and can't find it on google either.

N=1, but I had the amusing situation that while my wife talked me into going to a counsellor with her and I thought it's going to be a huge waste of money just to get someone to side with her, the (female, older) counsellor actually ended up being more sympathetic to me, if anything. It took only two appointments until my wife agreed that it was too expensive, and inconvenient for other reasons anyway. She also seemed somewhat mollified afterwards, so I guess it was worth the money after all.

This is just me speculating based on general life, but I wouldn't expect men to necessarily be more empathetic to you, unfortunately. Men can put women on a pedestal just fine. Especially if you're reasonably attractive & socially competent, you almost always can leverage some attraction/sympathy to your benefit, and that goes for both sexes. I'd say your best bet is a no-nonsense older married woman with kids (ideally teenage/adult sons with shitty girlfriends, but that's probably hard to find out). Those are both most likely to be sympathetic in my experience, and will usually have no problem being pragmatic. It's also important to start out nice and friendly at the first appointment, talk about her private life and be empathetic to her, which will allow you to both gauge whether she's the kind of person you want to get counselled by, and also to simply make her empathize back. Our counsellor was pretty open and happy to share, obviously nothing super-private, but she also though that a good match is important for counselling to work.

If you just want to play it vanilla, the phone port is actually great btw. But otherwise I'd always recommend Long War at least anyway.