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				Culture War Roundup for the week of July 6, 2026
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					


A lot of women (and men too, I guess) have sex out of a sense of duty or obligation, that doesn't make it rape.




I don't think a lot of men really have much experience with this.  Furthermore, I believe that according to human instinct[0] having to do this disqualifies you from being a man[1].  (Which is also why most human societies, bar the ones over the last 100 years, have this baked into their understanding of male homosexual activity, regardless of whether or not they actively prosecuted it.)


That knowledge gap creates some significant problems, though, since you have to guess as to how bad the problem actually is.  So you can't tell nearly as well if the opposite side/sex is bullshitting you, and if you default to "just Believe Them" for a few generations, you get this situation, where normal relationship dynamics have effectively become rape (or can become rape arbitrarily), especially in the marginal case (like this one) where that duty/obligation is all that's left in the relationship.




It's understandable that, if this state of affairs is broken to the point it's getting in the way of other political goals, the "side" that gained a sociopolitical advantage from normal relationship dynamics being rape (whose candidate it ostensibly is) would start pulling away from the polemic and towards nuance/reality.  The principled ones break first.




[0] Generalizes to 'being taken advantage of', but this is specifically why Samuel Jackson's character says those things in the first place.  Bitches are by definition female (shorthand for "obligated/subordinate"- not a prescription), which is why calling a man one in this context can even be a bad thing in the first place.


[1] And is part of why men in that position don't usually like talking about it if and when it should happen to them.  (And if it involves a woman, why the response is some variation of "nice" or "how'd you con her into it?", and in either case is followed by disbelief should the man complain about being turned into the obligated/subordinate partner.  In conventional relationships other men will mock the complainant by making whip-cracking sounds.)