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And I find racism and bigotry generally to be pretty abhorrent

It's rare for me to find someone complaining about both. No, really! Most people say 'racism' (by which they mean 'bigotry') and leave it at that.

How are you distinguishing between the two?

IMO racism is the belief that there are, on average, substantial genetically-rooted differences in behavioral proclivities among different populations, which is at this point beyond question -- not that it ever should have been otherwise (we did just get this cool new paper in Nature though! https://www.nature.com/articles/s41586-026-10358-1). In other words, racism is simply right and true.

Now, whether acting accordingly to that knowledge is 'bigotry' is an interesting conversation, but not one I almost ever see anyone have.

The conspiracy was to get children away from their communities and educated by the state and big media to give them those weak stomachs.

For you see, sailors often leave the ship at ports, which as a rule have good water access.

Being afraid of water but working in a coastal town is funny, though. And the kind of tough choices you might have to make in the real world: if the best (or only) job you can get is a tourist town by the sea, then that's the one you take.

I wonder sometimes about all the people who got impressed into service aboard naval vessels who couldn't even swim, and what that must have been like. But also, why would you not, at that point, learn to swim‽

For some reason I always find them kind of indicting. Like, I knew it was gonna get put up as an example, so probably I had some kind of responsibility to try harder.

But there's a balance. A three-quarters-assed post which actually gets posted is better than a whole-assed post that never does.

Ultimately one never knows what will have value to others and one of the cool things about our system here is that we let the readers decide what mattered to them, plus a sensible layer of admin oversight.

Agreed, but there's also a vast contingent of people who imagine they'd push blue right up until they're actually making the choice, at which point red becomes irresistable.

Everyone in the world has to take a private vote by pressing a red or blue button. If more than 50% of people press the blue button, everyone survives. If less than 50% of people press the blue button, only people who pressed the red button survive. Which button would you press?

Here is the prompt again, emphasis mine.

Not accusing you of this but a whole lot of people are somehow reading it as 'mentally-competent adults' which is not what it says.

If everyone commits to pressing red, everyone lives.

This is outside the bounds of the thought experiment (children, mentally infirm, etc.) and so irrelevant.

I think that almost everyone with young children, and who can comprehend the question (can more or less than 50% of human adults even do that?), is pressing blue. I certainly am.

Aside from that though the real interesting part of this, which has mostly gone unexplored afaict, is how the question changes depending upon the group under consideration. If it were just my church, I'd have zero concerns about pressing blue. If it were my whole county I'd still feel pretty good about it.

But 'everyone in the world' forces me to ask some hard questions about the psychology of foreigners and I find myself a lot less certain.

(The other difficult question is which button I coach my older kids to push.)

You would think. Personally I'm regularly horrified by the way most guys seem unbothered by clearly-fake women. Fake tits, fake face, fake hair.

If a woman isn't beautiful without makeup she's not beautiful, imo. But other people do have other opinions.

They feel a lot of things when they look at him. Sometimes it does express as resentment but it can't really be boiled down to any one thing.

When one fails, there's no dignity in hiding or obfuscating the failure. Dignity is in owning the failure in a way that makes it clear that the most important thing to you about the failure is your wrongdoing or errors that caused the failure, to the extent that you welcome any and all humiliation that public ownership of that failure brings you.

Do you have any idea how rare this sort of psychological self-awareness is? You are nothing like representative of pretty much any major movement that's ever existed. That's true of more or less each of us here.

The masses of humanity don't have anything like that kind of mental horsepower or internal philosophical integrity. We throw the word 'tribe' around for a reason. Politics is generally irrational and votes come through stoking subconscious emotional responses. Under that rubric, admitting one's side was wrong is generally devastating. People want to be on the side of success, not failure.

Try instead "the process [electoral college] is flawed"; that has some legs. Or, you know what would be even better? "They stole the election from us."

Now we're cooking with democracy.

It occurs to me that smart people often can't even imagine what it's like to be dumb.

Well, the stock manosphere answer is that women want you to be naturally attractive and are a bit put off by an unattractive man who's just managed to sneakily become attractive. A man who has worked tirelessly to perfect his sport, his craft, his dating game, is less attractive from the one who was just as good without having to try.

Beyond that it simply is socially gauche, so apart from the above it's also signaling that you're uncouth.

>he doesn't know about the 8647 seashells

a sensationalist media which amplifies any individual instances of so-called immigrant violence

I stopped here. That's the opposite of reality afaict and to see it baldly asserted pissed me off.

Wait is no one else immediately convinced that this is obviously a troll?

Yes, I meet fairly intelligent people all the time who actually believe this. Trying to suggest to them that the truth is less hopeful has never gone well.

I think this is straightforwardly because everyone in Western society has been raised from birth to believe that some ideas are right, some ideas are wrong, and some ideas are evil. That last category can never even be seriously considered without becoming the absolute worst sort of person. No one wants to be the bad guy, so open-mindedness here is strongly contraindicated.

Sure, yeah, the map is never the territory therefore we can disregard the map.

As much as I think we've lost something in the way of common culture -- when I was a kid we definitely all heard the same music -- I've gotta say it's nice to be almost entirely insulated from modern pop music. Sometimes I go to a grocery store or a restaurant and hear what's current and can only shake my head in despair and irritation, but for the most part I'm just free, free as a bird, and like it this way.

Besides all that, I've read many times that lesbian relationships have much higher rates of domestic violence, so...?