First off, congratulations on your achievements! Sounds like you are having a lot of work with very few structure around you. That's the worst for me.
In regard to dating, it sounds like you are taking a very technical approach to this. Nothing wrong with that, but it could help to get more in touch with yourself. I recommend reading the book "Models" by Mark Manson. It gives a primer on how to be comfortable dating as yourself, not as some proxy method you are trying out. I feel like this is the source of real confidence. Going into the whole thing as yourself and giving yourself over to the circumstances. Once you do this and succeed you will appreciate yourself in a deeper way. No need to fake anything or learn the next method. Be who you are and attract someone that likes you just for that.
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First off, congratulations on your achievements! Sounds like you are having a lot of work with very few structure around you. That's the worst for me.
In regard to dating, it sounds like you are taking a very technical approach to this. Nothing wrong with that, but it could help to get more in touch with yourself. I recommend reading the book "Models" by Mark Manson. It gives a primer on how to be comfortable dating as yourself, not as some proxy method you are trying out. I feel like this is the source of real confidence. Going into the whole thing as yourself and giving yourself over to the circumstances. Once you do this and succeed you will appreciate yourself in a deeper way. No need to fake anything or learn the next method. Be who you are and attract someone that likes you just for that.
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