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dailydogma

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I wouldn't mail order but I would go abroad if you're in the anglosphere. Dating culture differs significantly within a country and between countries. In one place I dated for 2 years and never got stood up, in another place I got stood up frequently, in another I actually found a wife.

My top advice is just selection effects and heredity over everything. Men need to sample from as many places as possible through pure online dating but other than that you especially need to sample from wherever has the women the most like you politically and intellectually.

It still took me probably over a year and that's not counting the time I spent not using this strategy (that would make it several years), so 4 is not really out of the ordinary. Hopefully you will find something soon. The reality is that the system is messed up because it's all too costly and annoying in time and money even when it works out. What age bracket are you dating by the way? Marriage rates are down but young marriage is especially down so if you are dating under 25 it's clearly a systemic issue.

The supremacy of probability & statistics driven evolutionary psychology over specious econoreasoning. Gale shapley does not apply because women can be single and preferences are not stable in men. Women wield singleness to wait on the top men in the area for their temporary turn. They will do this in country B and A and this behavior means at any given time more men per capita in B are getting laid than in A.

You are special for having read my spiel. You are endowed with knowledge that others of your gender do not have.

This is a little chunibyo.

If someone says there's a gangbang in the guest bedroom and you uncritically dive right in, you've got the spirit of a rapist if not the legal status.

So you think horny men deserve arbitrary violence from random people who wear cheap tin badges? Do you think the human race must be non horny? Why?

I've been doing active spouse hunt for about 4 years now.

What have you tried, exactly?

Grammar tip, «its» is the possessive of it, like his to he or your to you. «It's» means «it is».

That aside, I would say I broadly agree with your points.

Religious/Structured vs anti-religious unstructured

Spiritual/Neurotic vs atheist/rational

Left/Right

Definitely. With one caveat. The assortative mating coefficients of religiosity and left/right are high, but the coefficient for big 5 neuroticisim is low with the rest of big 5. Intelligence, however, is very high. So, instead of spiritual/rational, it should be dumb/smart. Smart people are effectively the definition of rational anyway. I agree with the subtext here that assortative mating is more important than game or women as monolith, and understanding its importance undermines most gender discourse.

Men could have evolved for an environment too unlike the one we inhabit today. The stresses of adapting on the cultural and evolutionary level have overwhelmed us. We are seeking the quick bust of a nut, the ephemeral pleasure of a harem over the realistic pleasure and comfort of a loving wife.

This I also agree with. The way to win in the gender wars is marriage to a partner that is well assorted on the traits I mentioned. A lot of male complaints are just men trying to figure out why having a Tinder harem is not working when they work in a warehouse. It's not wrong for them to point out that women are hypergamous. Any who are willing to join a Tinder harem are basically the worst in this regard. Only a subset of women are willing to do this and they effectively see it as a way to break out of their biological class.

Its the algorithms

Dating apps don't work. In large part because they attract bad women. One study found iirc that the median Tinder girl was almost -1 SD on the decent wife scale. Specifically they have more tattoos, higher body counts, lower SES and intelligence and on top of that looks than the general population. Looking for a wife on Tinder is like looking for a genius in the Baltimore hood. The best solution to this problem for internet natives is to be willing to marry someone who is far away, and to commandeer non-dating social media apps for dating purposes. You date online and you hopefully work remote and can move to her or else you restrict your search to someone who will move in with you.

Aristocracy, yes.

People prefer those like them, attempts to disturb this amount to the Berlin wall, the argument against it happening within the US afaik is «it's bad for undesirables» whether they be blacks (in the case of white flight) or the dumb (in the case of whatever Charles Murray was complaining about in the first part of the Bell Curve). Personally if you want me to be around such people you have to grant me elevation and authority, or else I will resent it and try to escape. From what I see of arguments like the one you link to they tend to refuse or ignore the authority component and instead they want people like me to accept some kind of duty to lower ourselves by living equal among people we don't want.

but in the anime Kazuma and many of the other characters are basically depicted as adults

I am not sure what you are talking about. When I watch the anime Kazuma seems like a boy and it explicitly starts with him getting run over coming home from school.

Megumin is a character that looks 12 and acts 12.

The joke is that she kind of looks 12, but I think she acts a little older being the most intelligent member of the party and so on.

The economy in a free-market system is a network effect; more able-bodied workers generates more opportunity, all else being equal.

They have to generate more than they take, not just generate some. Most people do not. How many people have ever created even 1 job?

*gets banned not goes banned

Good luck «revoking» Chinese independence. Anyway it getting banned is impossible but if it happened it would increase the salience of eugenics because the fundamental risk is human alignment / relative untintelligence.

Love existing doesn't interact negatively with AI. If anything it does positively, which means AI makes fixing this problem more important, not less. Under superabundance people will still want romantic partners, it's of terminal value, unlike jobs.

Guts had romance with Casca, so it's like your wife or girlfriend being violently raped in front of you (the audience experiences the story vicariously as Guts) vs. Netanyahu killing tons of Palestinians. This does not correspond to people reacting more severely to the alleged «sexual assault» of a stranger compared to the death of a stranger. And not only because the former can't even be known to have happened and also is not violent, unlike the latter. Even if the former happened for sure, it still is not equivalent, because it is a stranger.

Like sûre, doing drugs with a guy and stumbling off to another room with him voluntarily is one thing, but it doesn’t imply consent to group sex.

But if group sex happens, as one might predict, and she's not screaming no and is not unconscious, should the men in the situation specifically be locked in a cage? If so, long should they be locked in a cage for?

It is a car crash waiting to happen, where some people are for the first time confronted with their worldviews and moral presuppositions colliding with reality. If anything, it is fascinating to watch.

That's victim blaming. The culling of young men with sex drives must continue until there is nothing left but the new feminist man.

The "free pussy" thing doesn't strike me as proving anything except that there was some sort of group/sequential sex going on.

It doesn't even prove that. It just means there were horny girls around.

I would advise you to not put your money where you mouth is, in this case. You really do not want to start sleeping next to uranium.

You’re welcome to do a twin study on fraternity membership

Thank you. What do you think the point of that is though? First off it's the wrong method and the wrong parameter. Second off if you are good at understanding the current set of facts, your theory is already at <10% probability while mine is >90%. So, thanks for giving me your blessing to spend $100k on a study, maybe I will get on that when I have all of the money I should have.

If modern American life involves a lot of humiliation, then training for humiliation is beneficial.

Yes, good logic, Also, if fallout American life involves a lot of radiation, then exposing oneself to radiation is beneficial. Agreed?

If fraternities selected and promoted suboptimal norms then we should expect to see members perform worse, but we see them perform better.

This is fallacious. We want to know the causal effect of frats not the cross sectional. You assume the cross sectional effect is the causal.

In any case, America is one long humiliation ritual so it’s not actually a bad thing for young men to become habituated to this early, provided there is no actual harm being committed.

This is more or less whatabboutism.

stressful experiences build brotherhood, which I recall reading in a study involving militant groups a long time ago.

Vague. Equivocated too. Stressful experience as a pack against the outside is different than antagonism within the pack. You know what real men are supposed to do to those who humiliate them?

I mean that’s certainty one theory, but another theory would be

Yes, I mean, another theory is we live in a simulation and frat boys are demons that come from the higher world to mess with virtual prisoners. Do you care which is true or is it enough for you that you can come up with «another theory».

Frats market themselves as a conspiracy against outsiders that demands your dignity if you want to get in on it. It's not a bad thing that this is being attacked as bad and suboptimal and worthy of being shamed over. The victims of hazing are actually unscrupulous people trying to get in on it to perpetuate it, so it's fair if everyone sees their humiliation on the internet.