stankybadonky
1yr ago
Latinos in the United States tend to be low income, short and very fertile. Their romantic success is proof the traits you listed aren't requirements.
stankybadonky
1yr ago
Woman here. Maybe I can help.
Your odds of hurting women by talking to them are very, very low. We generally think of men we label creeps as mildly weird, not genuinely threatening. Don't get gropey or give sexual comments to strangers and you'll be fine.
Don't take rejection personally! The average woman on a dating site is swamped by messages. Every girl you talk to has fifty other guys competing for her attention so the odds she would pick you are low, that's the unfortunate reality of internet dating. Real life dating is less complicated but even there young women tend to be aware they are in high demand. Occasional rejection is something every man has to face and you should absolutely not let it discourage you.
Most women are attracted to confident dominant ambitious high status men. They do not want to be treated equally; They are biologically wired to seek a mate who could protect them and their offspring in the ancestral environment. You should aim to act like a tribal chieftain who believes he was predestined for greatness by the gods.
Really, the most important thing is that you don't give up. Remember that acting overconfident is always better than the opposite.
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