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Culture War Roundup for the week of November 3, 2025

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Personally what I hope for is a combination of the evangelical view of the world as mission space and its non-hierarchical, liberal approach to conversion with the focus on interior cultivation and community practice of Orthodox communities, but it is very rare that I get what I hope for in any field. So it goes.

I tend to agree with you. We're here on The Motte, and it seems to me that in theory there's a very clear synthesis with parallel institutions serving as a motte from which believers can sally forth to evangelize and retreat to in times of hostility. Dreher chose the name Benedict because the Benedictines ended up preserving so much literature that was later extremely influential on changing the course of history (if memory serves).

I think that, just in general, parallel spaces serve a potentially valuable role in terms of providing vital back-ups or redundancy, as well as a bulwark against tyranny and disaster. A city with a firmly established religious benevolence network will do better caring for the needy if government services shut down than one without; if the government oversteps its bounds, a place with alternative or parallel means of communication, organizing, and moving money will be much better prepared to resist than a place where all logistical and ideological endeavor is essentially routed through the same small cluster of institutions that, fundamentally, rest on a few fragile datacenters that can easily be accessed, subverted, and denied by a powerful government.

Obviously religious groups and institutions are not the ONLY institutions that can provide this. But I think it's important to note this because a lot of times Christians building parallel institutions invites hostility, and I think it's helpful to note that these organizations can actually provide a real public good (even if they are to some degree motivated by a desire for insularity).

And this sort of comes back to the Motte itself, I think: the Motte was created, as I understand it, precisely due to the perceived need to create a parallel institution without having to worry about a way of life discourse being strangled in its cradle by a hostile culture. The Motte is the Dreher Option in action, albeit not intended for religious conservatives (which to be clear I am not complaining about!)

even if I think it is often wide open to heretical teachings or pseudo-idolatry

I hear this a lot from Catholic intellectuals, but empirically it seems to me that Catholicism is far worse at teaching proper catechesis than evangelicals. You can see this in polling that shows that Catholics are more likely to reject core Christian doctrines, or in polling that shows they are less likely to go to Mass than evangelicals are to go to service (even though as I understand it this is much more of a religious obligation in Catholicism than in evangelicalism), or in polling that shows that a majority of US Catholics support abortion (performing worse on a cornerstone Catholic issue than evangelicals!) and birth control, where in practice Catholics are nearly as likely to say it is morally acceptable as Protestants, or in personal anecdotes (for instance Dreher talks about a priest counseling him and his wife to use contraception!)

Part of this, of course, is that Catholics who are essentially secular will still identify as Catholic in surveys, whereas lapsed evangelicals, I think, often won't bother to pretend. However, I also think there's a broader lesson here about human nature. People like control, and are entranced with the idea that a clear, rigorous body of rules, disseminated through a hierarchical organization, can give them some measure of control. But the facts on the ground often play out differently.

Now to be clear, I don't think this is the end of the story for American Catholicism – I suspect it's going to essentially shed most of its non-serious members and end up smaller but with a more committed (and conservative) core that will continue to have an outsized impact on US culture – but I think it's important to realize that just because the Catholics have One Big Book with all the answers to doctrine written down and evangelicals don't (or, if you prefer, have 2,184 competing One Big Books), doesn't actually solve the problem of getting people to read the book, let alone convincing people that the book is correct.

but empirically it seems to me that Catholicism is far worse at teaching proper catechesis than evangelicals.

Oh, yeah.

But the other problem is a deeper one: Christianity is not about "let's all be charitable and help the needy", it's about "let us love, obey, and serve God" primarily. So we get the conflicts over "sorry, we won't foster children out to gay couples"/"okay you're losing your state funding" and the Little Sisters of the Poor case and the likes of that, and then people finger-wag over "but Jesus said be nice!" as if that was the whole of the Gospel.

So trying to build influence based on "But Christianity will be so nice for the social fabric" is going nowhere. There will be offensive doctrines and practices ("what do you mean you don't ordain women, you bigots?") and it will be either give in on these and be empty buildings kept up as historical and artistic show pieces, but nobody goes to church because spiritual not religious, dude or keep the doctrines and be out of step with the world and keep shedding membership.

then people finger-wag over "but Jesus said be nice!" as if that was the whole of the Gospel.

Okay, sure. But. Really you do need both the “great commandments in the law”, Jesus was pretty darn clear about it:

Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart⁠, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind⁠. This is the first and great commandment⁠. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.

Yes, duty to God comes before duty to your neighbor. That’s quite Biblical and Christian. But you can’t look at the actual collected words of Jesus and with a straight face and say it’s only “primarily” about serving God. You must have both. That they are ordered priorities does not grant leave to ignore the second on mere fear of being lazy on the first.

It seems you seem to be saying that overemphasizing love for your neighbor as a PR strategy will backfire by confusing Christians themselves about their own priorities? I don’t really buy that. It’s incredibly common for groups to have PR strategies slightly different than their own internal goals. Yes, bleedthrough can happen, but it doesn’t seem so existential to me.

While secular do-gooding doesn’t convert anyone, it is in a loose sense a prerequisite. Someone must think you’re a ‘good person’ before taking an interest in the more faith-oriented aspects. Any theory about Christianity making a comeback must acknowledge this, what to me seems a pretty fundamental fact.

While secular do-gooding doesn’t convert anyone, it is in a loose sense a prerequisite. Someone must think you’re a ‘good person’ before taking an interest in the more faith-oriented aspects. Any theory about Christianity making a comeback must acknowledge this, what to me seems a pretty fundamental fact.

True, but the problem here is that “being a good person” means very different things to serious Christians and to believers in modern morality.

Imagine that I am able to spend all of my time operating a Catholic soup kitchen. In my time running it, I have sourced donations, worked hundreds of long days, been a kind and welcoming source of support to many, and fed at least thousands of hungry people. Also, I adhere to Catholic doctrine that gay people are suffering from disordered desires and should not indulge those desires, and that gay marriages are definitely an invalid, sinful concept.

I would be willing to bet that locally, I would have some defenders, but what do you think the theme of any media coverage is going to be once they discover I’m actually attempting to be serious about the whole faith? Do you think anyone who doesn’t actually know me would walk away believing I am a “good person?” From the modern liberal point of view, can any of my good deeds wipe away my sin and create an opening for conversion?

I would argue no. Which is why, when presented with the opportunity of Constantine, Christianity didn’t say “No, no, the best way for us is to focus on do-gooding for conversions, we don’t need the backing of the state.” They understood in some fashion that if the state isn’t backing your morals and values, it will back someone else’s. And that having the state backing your morals and values is the optimal way to make them the sea the fish swim in, thus making it much easier to both “do good” and maintain and promote dogma.

It seems you seem to be saying that overemphasizing love for your neighbor as a PR strategy will backfire by confusing Christians themselves about their own priorities? I don’t really buy that.

This makes me seriously question your understanding of the faith and the situation in which it finds itself. The sole purpose of Christianity is to win souls away from death and to immortal life in Christ. That’s what all the do-gooding and theology and everything else is actually for. God, in his mercy, is willing to forgive everything we do against him, but people do have to understand that they need to repent and seek God’s mercy. Therefore, they need to know what is actually sinful and what isn’t. I can be a great giver of charity and beloved by all, but if I’m telling my hypothetical flock that God says it’s okay to shoplift, I’m going to have a lot of people unwittingly mired in sinful living when they die, at which point they’re in God’s hands.

On a related note, I don’t know if you’ve been in a United Methodist Church recently, but I have cause to be in a local one fairly often and they have more LGBT and Pride iconography than they do Christian at this point. And I live in a very not liberal part of the Western United States. This church has absolutely lost sight of the priority to save souls, by overemphasizing loving their neighbor. The thing you don’t buy is a real thing that is happening right now in broad swathes of the faith, at least in the West.

Imagine that I am able to spend all of my time operating a Catholic soup kitchen. In my time running it, I have sourced donations, worked hundreds of long days, been a kind and welcoming source of support to many, and fed at least thousands of hungry people. Also, I adhere to Catholic doctrine that gay people are suffering from disordered desires and should not indulge those desires, and that gay marriages are definitely an invalid, sinful concept.

I would be willing to bet that locally, I would have some defenders, but what do you think the theme of any media coverage is going to be once they discover I’m actually attempting to be serious about the whole faith? Do you think anyone who doesn’t actually know me would walk away believing I am a “good person?” From the modern liberal point of view, can any of my good deeds wipe away my sin and create an opening for conversion?

As an atheist I mostly stay out of these discussions, but I can corroborate this. We have a local Christian homeless shelter. I don't know about media coverage, but the randos on the city subreddit seem more interested in being mad that they proselytize than giving them any credit for running a homeless shelter in the first place.