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Yeah, a joke. A joke's supposed to be funny. We're also not supposed to be reminded by the many, many prominent gay men who have said they had sex as children and that it was just fine.
Ok, granted, maybe specifically SF gay men's choir had no desire to brainwash their children. But seeing as children are stupid and impressionable, what then are we to think of 'sex education' aimed at preteens ? For example.
That's pretty esoteric. What about more .. mundane stuff that's not the greatest, seeing the medical problems.
One of the weirder things out there I found while looking into body positivity-I was incredulous- is that there's is a seemingly huge website that rewards pretty women for being fat and showing it off or getting even fatter. You see, fat women who want to be body-positive also somehow resent there are men who like especially that.
Site doesn't even allow full nudity, nevertheless, by the comments it's pretty clear people are getting off on that. That's.. pretty messed up. And it seems to benefit from network effects to a huge degree.
Okay to be more clear I have made jokes like that and worse hundreds of times, as far as offensive jokes go it's one of the mainstays. Homosexuals reproduce by... I can understand not having that taste in humor, but it's simply a joke.
Retread of past discussions, but, like, have you used the internet and interacted with teenagers? They watch a lot of porn. A few years ago I was organizing some video game thing and we banned several minors because they just kept posting porn, and screenshots of them dming each other weird porn. I do not think sex ed is a notable place where kids learn about weird sex stuff, I think they basically all learn it on the internet and from their friends. This may be bad, but it doesn't have much to do with sex ed, which in turn isn't directly connected to the original thesis about LGBT online communities and toaster intercourse
Yeah, feeders, it's terrifying. There's a lot of ridiculous things. People who cut their penises off as a fetish, nullos. Self-harm fetishes. Anal prolapse!
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