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I need some advice.
My depressive 22yo nephew just came out as MTF trans, is changing his name, and will be starting hormone treatment. It’s a huge shock: he’s been depressed for years, is mildly autistic, but he’s a gamer and has had manosphere opinions in the past so I would never have thought this possible.
This terrifies me because my 5YO son is also mildly on the spectrum and is impressionable. Now that this is “in the family” I am worried he will cotton on to it.
My personal view on trans is neither here nor there, but for the record I think it’s a mental illness spread by social contagion (like anorexia). This may be incorrect, but if it is, what model should I have for this?
My primary concern is to minimize the odds my son becomes trans, or becomes confused, exposing us to questions from his school, etc.
How should I handle this? What should I tell him about his cousin? What would you do?
How often do you see your nephew?
Twice a year, approx
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