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Culture War Roundup for the week of October 10, 2022

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Have you seen many articles recently about how the practices in the service industry are sexist and racist and that the existing service workers are keeping women and minorities out of the service industry?

Isn't that the point? The racial grievance class demanding that more women and minorities be admitted to your niche is an indicator that your niche is prestigious.

It never occurred to me to take those articles personally?

I suppose I have, to use a term recently coined by Moldbug, some “dark elf” syndrome going on. Moldbug used the term to describe people whose acculturation and mannerisms mark them as blue tribe, but whose emotional sympathies lie with the red tribe. Similarly, I work in tech to support myself, but I detest “tech culture” and I don’t really view myself as being a part of it. If someone says “Silicon Valley delenda est”, they’ll get a “right on!” from me.

Plus, I hold many views that are popularly considered to be sexist and racist, and I made peace with that fact a loooong time ago, so accusations of racism and sexism don’t really bother me anymore.

This falls under "you may not be interested in war, but war is interested in you." What matters with accusations of sexism and racism is not what you personally feel about them, but the fact that other people will act based on them.