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I feel really embarrassed at the idea of attending a meetup. Unfortunately, local to me that might be one of the best ways to meet people (single women). I know so many people who swear by them and I'm sure there's something to it.
But idk why I feel this deep disgust towards such things in my soul. I'm a big believer in doing things myself. A job that I find with my own merit would be infinitely preferable to one where I am refered. A date that I get by asking a girl out is infinitely more exciting than one setup by a friend.
Most people don't care! But why does the thought of this make me dizzy?
If you want to get at the root of your embarrassment, try flipping the scenarios around.
An employee found by making a job posting and collecting external applications would be preferable to one found through the referrals of existing employees.
A date that a girl goes on because some guy asked her out is more exciting than one set up by a friend who knows her preferences.
Do those flipped statements seem correct to you? If not, what's the salient difference between them?
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