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Culture War Roundup for the week of November 7, 2022

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It is the first I'm hearing about it as someone quite online, I think it's worth bringing up.

It's really amazing how flaccid the response was, isn't it? You'd think people would be screaming it from the rooftops, but it's like everyone's too demoralized to protest even the most deranged things being done to their children any more.

The most common response I saw on Twitter was saying "well, obviously this was the next step. We all saw it coming, but what's changed to make anyone listen this time?"

We (as in society, because I sure as hell haven't) accepted that sex was a private matter and what people did in the privacy of their bedrooms, or their imaginations, was no business of anyone else and certainly not the government.

We accepted that any and every sexual orientation was as legitimate and normal as default cis-heteronormativity.

We accepted that kink-shaming was bad, and fetishes were healthy expressions and explorations of sexuality.

We accepted that trans was real woman/real man and anyone who thought otherwise was a transphobe who probably engaged in the worst sin of sins, misgendering and deadnaming.

We accepted that kids could be and were sexual beings too, so contraception and abortion where necessary.

We accepted that kids could make informed decisions, just like adults, about their sexual orientation and gender identity.

We accepted that only religious zealots, bigots, haters, and slavering right-wing fascists objected to any of the above, and wanted to put limits on it because they hate women and minorities and want to control them.

So yeah, eunuch-identity as one more letter for the LGBTQ2+/LGBTQIA+ acronym is just the next step. There will probably be a new flag for them for next Pride. And yeah, eunuch-identity for trans kids, because what are you, some kind of hater? Don't you know about the 41%?